GemmaUK Posted August 27, 2016 Posted August 27, 2016 he lives with me. This morning he asks me a simple question, and I didn't answer it direct I said "what do you mean"? Hw explodes and asks what part of the question didn't you understand? We had a long talk last night and then he says he thought I understood. We're just too different I think. He's too blunt and abrupt and I'm sensitive and not direct. I don't see how we can find common ground...it's getting worse & worse even when I don't do anything wrong it's still wrong... What question did he ask this morning?
Redhead14 Posted August 27, 2016 Posted August 27, 2016 (edited) he lives with me. This morning he asks me a simple question, and I didn't answer it direct I said "what do you mean"? Hw explodes and asks what part of the question didn't you understand? We had a long talk last night and then he says he thought I understood. We're just too different I think. He's too blunt and abrupt and I'm sensitive and not direct. I don't see how we can find common ground...it's getting worse & worse even when I don't do anything wrong it's still wrong... What was the question? By the way, when you live with someone and they are needing a little space, you simply go about your day/days as normal without bringing up the issue again and without unnecessary attempts to talk with them. You are civil, address simple things to be addressed with them and go out for a while with a friend or relative. Go to the store, etc. Keep busy with your own projects, etc. Focus on just you for a while. Edited August 27, 2016 by Redhead14 1
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