Madie Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 I was wondering whether anyone has ever read Cucan Pemo's 'Bring Back The Love Of Your Life' ?
Miffy Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 No - why have you or have you had it recommended from elsewhere?
ButtonPusher Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 I have. Its the biggest load of crap on the internet. The only good thing about it is the 30 day money back gurantee, which I made full use of. Dont waste your money on those e-books. They say mostly the same thing ie dont contact them for awhile, work on improving yourself, dont push them etc. I think it's immoral of those authors to promise a "guranteed method" for getting an ex back. You can't make someone come back to you. Just let them go and get on with your life. They may or may not come to you in the future.
Jeannie Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 Dukkha's right - there's no magic voodoo spell or secret method to winning back an ex - the best thing to do is leave them alone. When you chase someone they have the ball in their court and they take you for granted knowing you're waiting in the wings. When you fall off the face of the earth - I kid you not - it makes people wonder what happened to you and curiosity gets the best of them - they come a knockin'. The problem with this is your ex might not contact you for 4 more months or they might suddenly contact you in a few days. I can tell you one thing - they always tend to show up or call right when you've suddenly gotten over them and stop thinking about them. It's the law - you decide you no longer need them - RING, RING - they're on the other end of the phone calling to see how you've been doing. Hopefully by then you have regained your intelligence and you realize they weren't that great after all and you're better off without them. How many times do we all look back at old ex's and say "What was I thinking?". If you give it time you'll get to this point with your recent ex. Right after a breakup you can only remember how wonderful they were - and all those memories...... Give it time and all the annoying crap will come back and you'll wonder why you put up with it as long as you did.
too_risky Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 I haven't read any of the e-books but I did purchase Blaise Harris---How to win your lover back. It was a good book, I've read it over and over several times. I'm not sure the tactics work tho. I'm one of those people in the "i f***g hate you, and I'm pissed off one day/loving you the other" stages. I'm still trying to sort out my feelings. The part Jeannie said about remembering how wonderful they are at first really hits the nail on the head. Break ups are so confusing. One day you think you'll die without them, the next you hate their guts. It's such an emotional roller coaster. I do wonder, how long does it take to get past this phase and into the "i'm getting over them" stage? I know that's when they will probably as everyone says, come knocking. It's been only about a month of NC for me. I just want to fast forward to the part where I'm not waking up with him as the first thought in my mind. I've done the keeping busy, moving on with my life thing but there are sooo many times when my demons find me. Any advice? How long does this stuff take??????
Author Madie Posted July 5, 2005 Author Posted July 5, 2005 I personally havent read it. Just wondering whether anyone has read it and whether it actually works. Whether there was ACTUALLY a way to get someone back. =)
suunto Posted October 2, 2005 Posted October 2, 2005 so what is the "four step strategy that always works" ?????
suunto Posted October 4, 2005 Posted October 4, 2005 come on Dukkha, what is the four step strategy, its says on the website I'll even show you what you can do to turn events around 180 ° to your favor. exactly as you want it, without breaking a sweat! So once you learn this amazing 4-Step "strategy", understand it, and learn exactly how to use it, you can literally become a powerful wish-maker! please let us know what the four steps are.
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 please let us know what the four steps are. 1. Buy the book 2. Read it carefully 3. Don't be too clingy, get on with your life, let them chase you, etc. Whatever. 4. If it doesn't work, pay to go to one of his seminars.
lindya Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 4. If it doesn't work, pay to go to one of his seminars. You're not his PR manager, are you RR?
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 You're not his PR manager, are you RR? Applied for the post, but I was considered not cynical enough...
lindya Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 Applied for the post, but I was considered not cynical enough... Ah. Perhaps I should download an application form myself. (to illustrate onset of cynicism in absence of suitable smiley)
sundrop Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Most of them in the books on how to win your love back is..... 1. Don't chase after them, it just pushes them away 2. Work on yourself 3. Don't call them for atleast 4 weeks after a break up 4. If and when you do start talking be nice and let them come back to you, don't pressure them.....
kscholze Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Tell me this then. When my ex told me she loved me and wanted to be with me, but said she cant right now bc she =has a B/F. should I not have pressured her to make up her mind?? I never pushed until she said these things to me
LifeChange Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 About 7 years ago, my marriage of 22 yrs ended. Married young, had kids young, same old story. When my marriage ended of course I was beside myself. I read a similar book and "IT WORKED". But about 6 months into the rekindled relationship "I" realized that "I" was now a changed person, so I ended it. Soon after I met someone who I have loved very much for about 6 yrs now. About 3 wks ago, he decided that we should take some time apart. Here I am, beside myself again. I read Cucan's book and realized that I had allowed my same thought and action patterns to return from before. The books title is a little misleading. It is really about "a life changing thought and action pattern". I went from beside myself to a very happy "positive" person by the end of reading the book. My boyfriend and I are now having very open conversations and I am 100% sure that we will be together again, only this time, I will not be headed back to those old thought and action patterns. For anyone who says the book is "crap", they are really not ready to be in a happy relationship. Read the book, make every effort to fully understand what the book is saying, and sit back and watch your "whole" life become what you want it to be. It has done wonderful things for me.
suunto Posted October 8, 2005 Posted October 8, 2005 so its not just about four steps is it? (what are they?) is the book worth $47?
lifeispeachy Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 My sis bought the book. It kinda worked for her. She read it when she was heartbroken and the next day, she actually stopped crying and she has been happy ever since. Her ex did want to get back with her but after reading the book, she realised that she didnt want him back. LifeChange is right. The book shouldnt have been titled get your ex back. Should be heal your broken heart and get your ex out of your head. So anyway, I read it. And its basically about being positive and following some universal laws. Works for some I guess. But you have to believe it in order for it work and wait for some time for the result to appear. As for the 4-steps ... hahaha ... pay $ 47 to find out. You can always get your money back ...
suunto Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 was gonna say, is this not a forum to share and help each other but i suppose your right, i should just buy it. just didn't want to put my hopes on something if it was no good.
Princess1975 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 I bought this book and yes, at least i stopped crying and being sad. I can't promise it'll get you your ex back, fo I'm in the same process here, but why not give it a try?? What can you lose?? Nothing, and I guess maybe you can win him back....so isn't it worth giving it a try?? =)
suunto Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 I bought this book and yes, at least i stopped crying and being sad. I can't promise it'll get you your ex back, fo I'm in the same process here, but why not give it a try?? What can you lose?? Nothing, and I guess maybe you can win him back....so isn't it worth giving it a try?? =) $47...... only joking, maybe i can get her back? i'll give it a go
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