iluv_her Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 Hiyaz, im new here, and of course I need some advice. I am into a 7 month relationship with the greatest woman, and I have messed up. I was marrried and had a successful business and was done really bad by my ex, long story short I gave up and lost everything I had. Then this wonderful woman I had known for a couple years and I began seeing each other. I hadnt dated for a year apart from my wife. I fell for her and she fell for me as well. We really click ya know. Well I was barely scraping by trying to put my business back togather, and we moved in togather. Her boss was very abusive and I told her to quit and I would take care of her. Mistake #1. I made a promise I couldnt keep, because I cant find a job that comes close to the 55-60 Gs a year i used to make. We are in financial trouble now and she has pulled away from me and I fear shes going to end the relationship. I should have taken a lower paying job and just lost sight in the worry of making enough to take care of her. (Oh yeah she is pregnant) I willl be taking one of those lower paying jobs this week but the problem is to her I broke a promise. which I did but not intentionally hopefully you get the picture. well to top things off I had promised her i wouldnt party while shes pregnant but I broke that promise too last night i broke over at my buds and drank a little. I have just been so stressed. when she asked me if i partied i told her yes a little bit. I wont lie to her but now shes sleeping on the couch.anyways shes on the coach now and i want her back in my bed. I know not to make promises I cant keep just didnt know at the time i wouldnt be able to keep them. Main thing is I want her happy again. I have apologized of course but she says im sorry doesnt change anything. Other than this I have never done her wrong. She has just turned the cold shoulder on me and I really feel its a little harsh but I do understand the financial strain. I just want to fix things and am hoping for some good advice on how to go about it. I love her so much, and she has been dishonest with me a couple times but I am forgiving and I dont know how forgiving she is because I havnt really pushed her until now. newayz thnx for any advice
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 If you fear she's going to end the relationship, back off a little. This will take the pressure off. And instead, take time to sort out your finances and job. With her pregnant, this has got to be your priority.
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