How do you define an "exit affair"?

[Arieswoman]

darkwater,

Arieswoman, I hope you don't hold it against me, seeing as how I might be perceived right off the bat as "the bad guy" in my situation, but I am the OW in my MM's exit affair.

 

No judgement from me darkwater as I said, just getting views from all sides.

[Got it]

My affair was an exit affair as I was planning to leave, was working on it, and was emotionally open to another person. So at the point of sleeping with someone else I immediately left the marriage.

 

My ex husband does not know about the affair.

[purplesorrow]

My ex had never planned to leave. From my point of view, any affair by him would be an exit affair. I just couldn't reconcile after that shyt. Sadly, he is still hoping to put us back together.