Confused_gil Posted August 24, 2016 Posted August 24, 2016 I was dating a guy for two years. I have been separated from my husband for two and a half years but not divorced. He isn't divorcing me as he doesn't want to let go his money and house. Now i met this guy two years ago. He was really nice to me I met his parents he met my kids yup at the age of 28 I have two grown up kids haha. As I mentioned my husband wouldn't divorce me, I was going through mood swings as he was making my life hell. In that phase my BF started feeling like I am pushing him away. He started talking to his previous flings without me knowing for 6 months. One day I got to know. After that was the downfall for our relationship. I became very insecure. Though loved him a lot was fully supportive towards him as he lost his job and all very nice to his parents. But deep down i was always paranoid that he is talking to other women. Long story short, we had a huge fight on August 1st I got lost in a festival and guys started misbehaving with me, scared i took it out on him when i got home alone. Since then he has been saying that he doesn't wanna be with me, bcoz we fight a lot. But one day he goes to me I love u like crazy but I don't believe in this that you are in a relationship or married to someone for the whole life and dont do side things (by side things he means sleeping with other women) I asked him if he wants to do it and stay with me, would our relationship be affected he said not at all but u deserve much better. I was in the beginning begging him and all, I stopped doing that. He starts messaging me on his own.I had to take my son to the game and their dad wasn't gonna watch my daughter so he said I'll watch her. Now He picked up my daughter, took her out for dinner and ice cream and stayed over last night. I saw him after 23 days. At first he said no sex nothing. But it happened and it was amazing. But he was very distant. I asked him if that's it is it over he made a face as if he's annoyed. I didnt say anything. He didn't snuggle with me or anything. He is trying to approach girls on social media, but it does seem like he is trying to distract himself. Now when I asked would I see u again he said most probably. When he left in the morning i didn't message him and he messaged me saying "How do you feel". I am so confused what does this guy want from me.I am not able to move on fully as when i stop messaging he comes in my life. Sorry about a long post had to give you guys detail in order to get an idea.
PegNosePete Posted August 24, 2016 Posted August 24, 2016 1) Divorce your husband. 2) Kick your cheating BF (or ex BF whatever) to the curb. What does he want from you? Sex. That's all.
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