Totallyconfusedfla Posted August 23, 2016 Posted August 23, 2016 A few months ago I posted about a blind-side break up. Basically I was left for someone else, when my boyfriend was acting like I was the greatest thing since sliced bread. It was really unexpected and devastating. I started to date again, and met a wonderful guy. We have been together for about three months and he asked to be exclusive a month ago. Just like the last one, no red flags. Until now. He has been working on a new website for his business and has asked a female friend to help him. I have never met this girl or heard of her. But I saw a picture of her, they are facebook friends. I guess he goes away for a winter trip every year with a large group and she is part of the group. Perhaps I am being paranoid because of my last relationship. I don't want to be but am now on alert for red flags. This girl is younger, gorgeous, single and seems like a big flirt. She has pictures of herself posted in lingerie from a professional photo-shoot. He has liked all of them, all of her selfies too. Maybe I am overreacting but I just don't want to go through it again. I doubt most women would want their guy working with a sexy blonde on a personal project. And most men would not want their girl working with a hot single guy. So do I ask him about it, let it play out, or just say it's not for me?
Ami1uwant Posted August 23, 2016 Posted August 23, 2016 You are over reacting......it sounds like he told you about her snd you see it on facebook. If he was cheating you wouldn't know. If you react negatively he will not share anything with you agsin. You are jealous...the problem is on you...not him.
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