ChuckDee33 Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 Ok, if my ex gf told me this in an email: "(New bf) and I came to terms the other day that we don't think we could ever be in love with each other." They've been together like 6 months. But they are still together as far as I know. I have no clue what their relationship is like, where it's been, where it's heading. My question is why remain in it after that long if you both agree you could never love them like that? She's never lied to me and I don't think she just told me that to get a rise out of me. What gives?
mixwell Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 sounds weird why she would let you know that.. Maybe she is having some mixed feelings ?? Who knows.. Just talk to her about it more and maybe ask her..
summergirl Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 My ex also said that he's not *yet* loving his new GF, he even told me some turn off things he found from his GF and he said I looked more attractive than her. But I think he still chose her rather than me that's why he dumped me. Maybe what he's looking for is someone new, no matter how good the old one is/was. So i just picture myself as Liz Hurley, no matter how beautiful she is still Hugh Grant looked for something else, right? Don't ask your ex about her relationship, you dont wanna know trust me it will only hurt you. This is why NC or LC is important. If it's not working between them, she'll go look for someone else. Beside like you said you dont want to be a backup, aite dude?
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