ss92 Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 Friday afternoon I went on a date to a park and we got some coffee. We just talked and laughed for a couple hours. He called me cute once and poked my face. :confused:The park was closing so we had to leave. He then asked where else we could go.. so we walked to another (bigger) park. As we were walking he grabbed my waist to push me out of traffic. Once we got to the park it was kind of dying down just because I felt a little uncomfortable cause I was nervous about what he thought of me. I think during our talk in the second park he thought I was a little boring. (just the feeling I got..) Then it got late and he said he had to go pick up his friend from work. He walked me to my bus stop and we hugged (It kind of felt like he was going for a kiss but I'm awkward so IDK) Then he said I'll text you later .. I said okay. Later that night he said hey and asked if I got home okay. I said yes and that I had a nice time and that I enjoyed where he took me and he agreed. Since then he hasn't contacted me. I just felt it went well and I find him interesting.. what do I do????
Redhead14 Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 Friday afternoon I went on a date to a park and we got some coffee. We just talked and laughed for a couple hours. He called me cute once and poked my face. :confused:The park was closing so we had to leave. He then asked where else we could go.. so we walked to another (bigger) park. As we were walking he grabbed my waist to push me out of traffic. Once we got to the park it was kind of dying down just because I felt a little uncomfortable (so this could just be in my mind at this point) I think during our talk in the second part he thought I was a little boring. Then it got late and he said he had to go pick up his friend from work. He walked me to my bus stop and we hugged (It kind of felt like he was going for a kiss but I'm awkward so IDK) Then he said I'll text you later .. I said okay. Later that night he said hey and asked if I got home okay. I said yes and that I had a nice time and that I enjoyed where he took me and he agreed. Since then he hasn't contacted me. I just felt it went well and I find him interesting.. what do I do???? what do I do?? -- You keep busy with your life, sit back and let him reach out to you and set up a second date. Let him come to you if he's going to. Be receptive/responsive when/if he contacts you for the first few dates and then you can start initiating some. Keep it balanced. But for now, just observe.
Author ss92 Posted August 22, 2016 Author Posted August 22, 2016 Thank you! This is what I thought to but it has been three days...
august14 Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 I disagree with the above poster. If the date went well and a few days have passed and you still haven't heard anything from him, I would say you go ahead and text him. If this is something that will turn him off you then you two probably aren't compatible anyway. 3
KuraJay11 Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 Best bet would be to take it as a loss. If a man is interested in a woman he is not going to go a whole weekend without contact. It takes a few seconds to send a text message. He's not interested. Move on.
smackie9 Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 If you don't initiate he is going to think you had no interest, especially when you were feeling kind of awkward at the end.....he probably felt it and just assumed. 2
Author ss92 Posted August 22, 2016 Author Posted August 22, 2016 Thank you everyone for the replies. I'm going yo wait a few more days. Then just invite him out. What do I have to lose? Worst thing is he either doesnt answer, or says no. Then I know for sure to forget him
Gaeta Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 Thank you everyone for the replies. I'm going yo wait a few more days. Then just invite him out. What do I have to lose? Worst thing is he either doesnt answer, or says no. Then I know for sure to forget him You both sound inexperienced. He is probably waiting for a green light from you. Text him. AND No, you don't wait a few more days. You have to show your interest. Send him a casual text today and ask him if he wants to meet for 'insert activity' on Wednesday. 2
Author ss92 Posted August 22, 2016 Author Posted August 22, 2016 Gaeta, I've only been in one long term relAtionship. I would say yes i'm inexperienced in dating. I texted him the night after the date with a funny pic that reminded me of something we saw during the date. He said it was really funny. and I agreed. Then silence since. I say wait a couple days because I am not free until the weekend anyway
bachdude Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 I think just a few days is perfectly acceptable. It may seem like an eternity to you but it really hasn't been long. Just take some deep breaths and let him contact you. Another text isn't necessary because you already told him you enjoyed your time together. 1
Author ss92 Posted August 22, 2016 Author Posted August 22, 2016 It does feel like an eternity haha especially since I would like to go out again and get to know him. I just think he is not interested because before the date he would text once a day . now none
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