gypsi Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 Please can anyone shed some light on my situation I met this girl she is 24 and I am 29 at first she was a rebound as I just came out of a serious relationship. Then we both fell in love. Only problem is was in the closet and I was an openly game woman. Everything was going so well I really fell hard for this girl and asked her numerous times if she's ready for this relationship she said yes every time. I believed her. Well she told her her parents about us a week ago they were upset and I understood it. We both went on with the relationship all lovely Dovey on Text as we normally do making our plans for the weekend when she suddenly just drops a Bomb She says I have decided I'm not ready for this relationship I want to be alone and goodbye. Just like that before my birthday weekend away.... I am devastated I can't get out of bed I haven't heard from her since its like she just died. Any advice or insight would be hugely appreciate it I truly love her more than anything and she said she did me to make such a drastic change just bless my mind and my heart and sanity is not doing to well
ExpatInItaly Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 I think probably her parents' disapproval was more than she was ready to handle. Even though she is an adult, it was likely very difficult to hear that her parents didn't support this. Perhaps they pressured her to end it or threatened to withdraw their support entirely or cut contact with her. I'm sorry you're in so much pain, especially considering you haven't done anything wrong. The way she went about it is also pretty awful; you certainly deserved more respect that a flipping What's App message.
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