SecretFlower11 Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 Hello Sorry for the long text in advance! So i have this neighbor i sometimes see on the street and i find him really attractive. I am not good with guys and a bit shy i think so i need help to find out whats actually going on. I met this guy a few times now and he always acts weird around me... I´d like to ask him out but not if the sings are actually negative and i am just interpreting them wrong. I am attracted to him so of course i paid attention to his actions around me so just a few examples: - I tried asking for the time (just to get comfortable talking to him) and he talked to me nicely and laughed a lot - The next time i met him he suddenly stared to the ground and scratched his cheek but did not look up while passing by. I looked at him and when he was past me, he turned around and loked eyes with me. - When i walked down the stairs at the station he walked up and when i turned around he still was on the stairs where he was before (idk did he look at me?) - The last time i saw him he looked to the side (again avoiding eye contact) and bit his tongue. That was all really weird and i don't know what to do. Is he annoyed with me even though i haven´t done anything? Or does he like me? Help... P. s The don't know each other yet and i can't smile and say hi when he avoids eye contact.
smackie9 Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 There are times you have to step up and say something like "hey you, fancy meeting you here! How's your day going *smile*...." Confidence, and welcoming smile, cheerful, positive. These are the things that will get you noticed. You are shy? then you will just keep admiring from afar and give them the impression you have no interest.
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