thebiglimp Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 went on a date with a girl. at first it was suppose to be a hookup. explicitly so- sexting, sharing pics of previous hookups etc. then the date goes extremely well, but she doesn't hook up with me but wants to see me again next weekend. instead. she's showers me with compliments the whole date, and text afterwards. And the guys she's hooked up with in the past aren't as good looking as me (at least in my mind)
kgcolonel Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 She's now interested in more than a piece on the side.....she's working to act respectably and like GF material. 1
preraph Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 Either that or she's working as a prostitute and waiting for you to pay her. 1
AMJ Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 How do you know who she's hooked up with in the past?
Author thebiglimp Posted August 22, 2016 Author Posted August 22, 2016 we talked about it prior to the date
Lois_Griffin Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 ...sharing pics of previous hookups etc. LMAO. Who DOES this? Is it a turn on for you to see how many guys were in there before you? She's quite the class act. Maybe she avoided hooking up with you because she's on a cycle of medication to clear something up and didn't want to infect you. Sorry, but that IS a very real possibility. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 (edited) A decision to "hook up" is mostly in woman's mind. Women don't think like men and if you are better looking than A, B or C that she hooked up with in the past is meaningless. It's also irrelevant if she hooked up with men in the past. I did and felt so empty afterwards that I decided not to do it again. When I did hook up, it was due to my frame of mind. In that moment in time, I felt like doing something spontaneous and crazy and the guy just happened to be there. Who he was or what he looked like was of little importance. It also just flowed naturally from whatever we were doing. However, there are few things that are sure turn off: any kind of pushiness and pressure, any sense of entitlement from a guy to get sex, any verbal requests for sexual acts - this one is a sure fire way to instantly make me Edited August 22, 2016 by Eternal Sunshine 1
Omei Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 LMAO. Who DOES this? Is it a turn on for you to see how many guys were in there before you? She's quite the class act. Maybe she avoided hooking up with you because she's on a cycle of medication to clear something up and didn't want to infect you. Sorry, but that IS a very real possibility. I too think that's extremely weird behavior OP is that mixed info or she really shares past hookup pics lol like she sent pics of men she had sex with in the past to YOU????
biker23 Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 I think most can't come to grips with the behavior before the date. Let alone know an answer to what happened on it. My opinion is she had such a good time she is trying to be more than a hookup.
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