acrobaticmonkey Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 I broke up (meaning got dumped) about a month and a half ago by a guy I really liked but wasn't happy with (does that make any sense?). When I spoke with him a week after the break-up he told me he wanted to be friends with benefits. I told him that I wanted to but didn't think it was the right thing to do. At the end of the conversation I told him that we needed to just spend some time apart so I could get over him but that I would "dream about him" until then. The problem is, I can't stop dreaming about him. All night, every night, these super vivid dreams that haunt me all day about breaking up or getting back together, or him coming back or anything play in my mind. It doesn't matter really what its about, he's just always there. Obviously this is very much hindering my ability to get over him and even though the relationship was short (about 2 and a half months), I am scared to see him because I think I would flip out and start crying in front of him which would be ridiculoius considering the fact the we never even popped the "I love you"s'. I called him today though and am going to meet up with him tomarrow to give him his stuff back. I almost cried just talking about him. Its not him that I miss though, its the person I see in my dreams. Very strange situation. What do I do?
Zaira Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 Find something else to occupy your mind. Seek some counselling so that all your bottled up feelings come out then, and not while you're sleeping. That's all I can offer.............
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