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There is this girl I started talking to who originally had a boyfriend. They broke up and we started talking but I ended up being a rebound and she went back for him. They broke up and then we stayed friends. A couple months later she started liking my best friend and then he liked her but it ended up not working about because my friend knew I would be mad about it. I stopped talking to my best friend and her and I basically told her I didn't want her in my life anymore because she wasn't a very good person. She texted me a couple days ago and was apologizing for things and asking if we could be friends again. I said sure, a couple days after us being friends again she told me she liked me. I don't know what to do now. Do I give her a chance or do I forget her?

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I'm wondering what she you and your friend did to make you so upset at them. She wasn't your girlfriend at the time, so it's not like she cheated on you. She had every right to go after or get together with anybody she wanted. That doesn't make her a bad person. But if there's more to it, and there are other reasons why you truly believe she's "not a very good person", then she's probably not somebody worth dating either.

 

As for your friend, if he knew how you felt and still went after her, then that's not the coolest of friend moves. But you say things didn't work out between them because he knew you'd be mad, so it sounds like he did stop things with her? I think for the sake of the friendship you should just forget about this girl. Girls will come and go, but best friends are harder to find. If there's any chance she'll put your friendship at risk, she's not worth it.

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There's no point getting back with her because you are not the type she likes best and she will just keep pursuing until she finds someone she likes better than you. She's already shown you this.

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