MMonro Posted August 20, 2016 Posted August 20, 2016 Usually I try to solve things on my own, but I just don't know anymore. My bf and I have never met (we live in the same city), but that's okay for us. My bf and I have an off and on relationship, thanks to me. Now back to my issue at hand. I really like clingy and open guys as I've grown to learn. They just make me feel happy, idk. My bf is really sweet, but our conversations are basically non-existent. He'll ask me what I'm doing, I'll answer. I'll ask him what he's doing. Then he'll tell me he loves me, I'll say it back. End of convo after that. That's part of the reason why we break up a lot. I just get bored of our convos. I told him about my exes being open, but he didn't really say much. I don't want to bug him about it, but he promised that we'd talk about more stuff a few days ago. Like I said, I want to talk, but I don't want to come across as clingy and annoying. I really love him, but I just feel like he doesn't love me as much as he did when we first started dating, like he's tired of my ****- tbh I can be a little paranoid about this- but Idk. What if that's his personality, and he was being fake for me in the beginning.What if he's texting another girl? What if I made him mad? There are just so many what if's. I want to text him, but I just don't want him to find me annoying. I'm good at getting into relationships, but not at maintaining them. I don't want to break up with him because I always end up regretting it.
preraph Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 You've never even met him even though you live in the same city, so how can you say "when we first started dating"? You're not dating at all. You've never been on a date or even met him. He isn't a real boyfriend because you've never met. You're just pretending to be dating via text. Of course you're bored! Why is this okay with you to never meet him? Have you ever Skyped or Facetimed? No one is the same in person as through social media. If you think you're bored now, try meeting him and see if you even LIKE him anymore. Or her. I'm deeply disturbed by your post that you think talking to someone and never meeting is dating.
kendahke Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 How do you know if you live in the same city when you've never laid eyes on him? You are aware that catfish can get a google phone number or phones with area codes in your area and they not be anywhere near you, right? Have you skyped? Even still--both of you should have made some kind of plan to meet each other face to face by now instead of wasting each other's time texting. You don't have a relationship. You love your idea of him or what you have constructed around him---you don't love *him*.
preraph Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 Don't ever send him any money for any reason. Chances are this person isn't even in your city and maybe not even in this country. You are being scammed.
Shanex Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 My bf and I have never met (we live in the same city), but that's okay for me. How can he be your boyfriend if you have never met him? How is that okay? When it comes to dating and RS, I usually advocate 'to each his own' but these situations are silly. If you are being scammed, dont take the bait. Call or video chat are widely available today.
BaileyB Posted August 21, 2016 Posted August 21, 2016 You can't really call this a relationship - you've never met each other. Really? Are you serious?
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