LightningJunkie Posted August 20, 2016 Posted August 20, 2016 Hello everyone I'm new on here and this situation has been driving me crazy, so I signed up to get some advice. I am a male college student. I work at a daycare center and there is this new girl that started working there back in May. When I met her, our personalities seemed to mesh well and we got along nicely. At the beginning of summer, we just kept things pretty friendly and would talk at work just like any other coworker would to another. As the summer progressed and I got to know her more, I started developing a crush on her. One day on our breaks, she told me that she was going to get coffee. I asked if I could come along and she said yes. Then I took it a step further a week or so later and asked if she wanted to go kayaking after work. We went kayaking and had a blast together. We even decided to prolong our "outing" by getting ice cream afterwards. Since then, we have gone to get coffee and other drinks several times on our breaks together. It's to the point now that our other coworkers are noticing us do things together a lot and have been making comments to us. What I find interesting (and a little encouraging that she likes me) is that many times now after she clocks out for the day, she comes to where I am with my kids and waits for me to finish working so we can leave together. (We both leave at 4:30, but usually she finishes first). After a long day of working with kids, wouldn't you just want to go home right away? Here is where it gets complicated...she's bisexual. I learned that she dated a guy for a little bit back in high school. After that ended she met a girl at college and has been dating her for over a year now. They are still together. So what do I do here? I have a pretty big crush on her and I think about her all the time, but she has a girlfriend right now. The way she acts with me though (like I've stated previously) makes me think that she might like me too. I don't want to be a home wrecker, but I have feelings for this girl. Everyone I talk to at work says that we would make a great couple. I need some advice from you guys please...
smackie9 Posted August 20, 2016 Posted August 20, 2016 What are you doing here? You are just being friends and friends can be emotionally attached with out romantic feelings. I think you are friend zoned and your imagination is getting the best of you. It would not be good karma to mess with someone who is already in a relaitonship. I think you need to respectfully set your feelings aside, and stop mackin on someone elses GF.
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