lana-banana Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Why are you so keen for advice about a guy who very clearly isn't interested and doesn't want to date you? You can't compare his early dating behavior to his behavior now. The next time a guy cuts you off you should respect that and block him immediately for your own peace of mind. There's no sense in trying to analyze why someone doesn't like you. It's fruitless at best and damaging to your self-esteem at worst. 2
Raena Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Seems like you just aren't the right fit for each other... in every sense of the word. Let him go and move on.
Redhead14 Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Haha thank you! I was more asking for an opinion on last night's convo: why he last night said that he didn't enjoy having sex with me when he previously asked me if I'd wanna move to another state with him. And he has no reason to allow me to "string myself along" when he apparently doesn't enjoy the sex...soooo not sure what your post is about!! But I appreciate the time nonetheless! I missed the newer updated post . . . nevertheless, He's gotten a point where he's just getting tired of dealing with it and so is getting, meaner about pushing you away. For whatever reason, he's lost interest in you. He is apparently interested in having a relationship with someone, he's not interested in a relationship with YOU. And, sometimes guys online will just say they are looking for a relationship because they know that's what most women are looking for so they can get their foot in the door so to speak. Stop communicating with him. Don't reach out to him and don't respond if he reaches out to you. He's just going to get pissier. He might just be enjoying toying with you because he can tell that you're all wrapped up in this. Let it go. 2
SoThatHappened Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 My take: He was all in and really liked you in the beginning. You didn't reciprocate any of that. You were standoff-ish and made him do all the work. Then, when he wasn't getting anything back from you, and he also knew you didn't enjoy sex with him, he probably decided to cut his losses. A person can only carry the relationship on their own for so long. He got tired of it. Funny how you didn't seem to care too much until he was gone. 1
Patrice Posted September 19, 2016 Posted September 19, 2016 thin-skinned. If he had an issue, with your response about moving, he should have addressed that to get some clarification. Maybe he isn't the person you think he is. Anyone who doesn't let a relationship take it's natural course, is a red alert. 1
Author Mkn1010 Posted September 19, 2016 Author Posted September 19, 2016 Thanks guys! He actually popped back up again last night, sending me an inappropriate message requesting details of my sexual preferences :/ so needless to say I'm now just chalking this whole thing down to another internet weirdo! At least I feel better about being very cautious and trying to move slow! Patrice, you make a very valid point regarding not knowing him ...at all!! 1
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