Indicator23 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 There's a girl in class who I've liked for months now. We just got back to school and to be honest I'm not sure if she likes me anymore. She never acknowledged that she likes me but you could tell that she was really interested. No doubt. She showed a lot of interest by constantly staring at me and holding eye contact for a long time, just randomly. She also initiated conversations with me but I basically showed zero interest even though I was interested. So she probably thought I wasn't interested at all and decided to move on. Anyway, I've decided that moving on is the best thing I can do since I messed up by not asking her out in time. But how? I'll see her at least five days a week for almost a year. Would be so much easier if I didn't have to see her every day. I don't know what to do, I don't want this to affect my studies negatively. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
smackie9 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 ya stop being a chicken $%*& and chat her up, flirt with her, be bold and ballzy....then offer to take her out to study and have a slice of pizza....you know what you should have done in the first place. 3
preraph Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 Yeah, if you're too afraid of her to ask her out, then not sure why you're interested in her at all. Doesn't sound like you're at all ready to date.
Author Indicator23 Posted August 19, 2016 Author Posted August 19, 2016 ya stop being a chicken $%*& and chat her up, flirt with her, be bold and ballzy....then offer to take her out to study and have a slice of pizza....you know what you should have done in the first place. But if I don't want to ask her out? How can I move on? Yeah, if you're too afraid of her to ask her out, then not sure why you're interested in her at all. Doesn't sound like you're at all ready to date. Well, she's in my class and will be for another few years. It would be really awkward between us if I ask her out and she rejects me. Not to mention that she'll probably tell other people. That's the reason I didn't ask her out. I don't feel like asking her out anymore though. Just want to move on and focus on my studies.
scooby-philly Posted August 22, 2016 Posted August 22, 2016 But if I don't want to ask her out? How can I move on? Well, she's in my class and will be for another few years. It would be really awkward between us if I ask her out and she rejects me. Not to mention that she'll probably tell other people. That's the reason I didn't ask her out. I don't feel like asking her out anymore though. Just want to move on and focus on my studies. Ok - so if I'm not reading this correctly, please let me know. But based on your responses above it appears you DO WANT TO ASK HER OUT and that your only fear is rejection. All it takes is 20 seconds of bravery. And if you're worried about it being awkward then imagine how awkward it might be a year from now if you still have the same feelings but didn't act on them. Imagine see her in April and listening to her talk about her BF when the BF isn't you. Then it will be really awkward. Worst case - when you summon up the courage tell her you'd be cool if she says no. If she's interested in you that might tip the jar in your direction. If not, she has an easy way out and you're both not left feeling that awkwardness. Plus, if she does like you and you don't act - imagine how she's feeling.
Recommended Posts