Untouchable002 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 Hello, i don't speak very good english, but i hope that you will understand me.. I chat 4 months with one guy who is very popular in our city and i say him no when he 2 times asked me did i wanna go on date with him.. i do that because everybody speaking here that he is womanizer, alcoholic and take drugs, but i don't say him that i know that, of course.. he is good with me, he is very funny person and when we met better he asked me 3 time did i wanna go on date with him.. I say yes and he taked me to the most popular cafè in our cuty, he meet me with a lot of people who know him and i was very happy because the date was amazing and he asked me a few questions about our future, that he wants to be closer with me; that i must call him when i go in the city where he lives and etc.. But he dont calls me 3 days after that, althought he like my new pictures and i like his pictures.. maybe i was cold with him on the date maybe i was not, but i know that i was friendly.. He say on date that the next days he will be full of work, but i don't know.. what do you thing, did i must do next step or i must wait for him to text me?
smackie9 Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 He is a player...#1-they don't communicate between dates. #2-they tell you what you want to hear, like talk of the future, looking for a wife, say how amazing you are and they have never met anyone like you, etc. They make you think you are more special than other women....it's all lies. He is not busy at work, he is busy dating and having sex with other women. Your next step is to not see him again or you are going to get your heart smashed. 2
preraph Posted August 19, 2016 Posted August 19, 2016 He was interested in you BECAUSE you kept telling him no. A lot of guys want what they can't have and a lot of desirable attractive guys don't get to "chase" much because the answer is always yes, and that goes get boring. I've heard more than one guy say so. Anyway, he's not interested enough to probably want to quit dating other people. If you enjoy dates with him and he asks you out, you could go, but don't expect him to text and call regularly like a boyfriend because he's not that. Good luck. 2
Author Untouchable002 Posted August 19, 2016 Author Posted August 19, 2016 (edited) Thanks, we don't have kissed still and i will procastinating that with answer that im not ready yet to that step.. i will be still a little insolent with him.. Btw, we talk between him asking to date me and we have a very friendly conversations.. And no, he didn't say looking for a wife, he just say that he wants to have dates with me in the future. We had long hugs and he wink to me in the end. He was very honest, he talk about money, about what is usefull to spent money, he talk about his family and friends... Edited August 19, 2016 by Untouchable002 1
Gaeta Posted August 20, 2016 Posted August 20, 2016 everybody speaking here that he is womanizer, alcoholic and take drugs, Why do you want to date a man like this? People don't come up with stories like this out if thin air, if several people say he is a womanizer, that he drinks and takes drugs then stay away from him. 1
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