Jadedbyluv Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 I believe I posted on here before about my on and off again relationship. A few months ago things ended pretty badly, and we stopped talking for about two months. We caught up again in the beginning of summer and started to hang out again. However, he still can't commit. We aren't really friends with benefits but we aren't a couple either. Since he still couldn't commit, I have been dating. I can't wait for him forever So I met a really great guy who has some potential. We have amazing chemistry, and a ton in common. My ex found out I was dating this guy and got jealous and upset. Then basically told me he would give me what I wanted and was willing to have a real relationship. So basically now I am not sure what to do. On one hand, I want to believe my ex and give him the benefit of the doubt. I wanted things to work for so long and he says he is willing to try. We are great friends, and I care about him a lot. So that means ending things with the new guy. But on the other hand, I could be missing out on something great by doing so. I feel like I have to choose and I am not sure what to do.
preraph Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 No. You keep dating. Guys will say anything to stop you from having other guys, even when they never considered you "the one." If he wanted to commit, he'd have done it before. If things were going to work out well, you wouldn't have had the bad times. Don't assume he's changed. He hasn't changed. Tell him you're going to continue dating. Don't throw away someone for this guy. And if the ex gets in the way of a promising new guy, ditch the ex so you don't jeopardize the new relationship.. Good luck. 2
hippychick3 Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 Stick with the new guy. If you do, in time your feelings for him will deepen and you'll be glad you stayed. If you don't, you'll inevitably end up heartbroken again, because there is NO doubt in my mind your ex will dump you again as soon as he gets you back. 4
GTR King Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 it would see new guy and see how things go, No need to go back to your ex you broke up for a reason and it will happen again
basil67 Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 Stick with the new guy. And distance your ex - it's time to leave him in the past.
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