Author RazorsEdge0620 Posted August 17, 2016 Author Posted August 17, 2016 Hold up, hang on. Maybe the first woman isn't acting strangely because she sensed you slept with someone else. Maybe she's just realizing for other reasons she doesn't want to date you. I dunno. I don't think I'd expect exclusivity from a guy I only went out with twice. I wouldn't have necessarily wanted to know if that had happened, but I also wouldn't have automatically assumed he was some lying dirt bag, either. That's what casual dating is, right? I do think OP feels guilty, and in this respect, his conscience should guide him. OP, if you and this woman become exclusive, would you feel a compulsion to cheat? Why did you sleep with this other woman in the first place? Are you multi-dating? You're giving very little context for your actions and thoughts, hence the blow back. I guess you guys have never heard of the website "Ashley Madison" and all the shock waves that were sent out throughout the United States about Men who cheat. Cheating is nothing new and has been around along as there has been mankind. According to Media reports at the time most, and I repeat MOST had no idea that their man was on this website! I came to this website for help and advice and instead all I got was Personal Character Assassinations, Insults and called a Sociopath. Have a nice day! Good bye! FU!!! 1
ChickiePops Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 I guess you guys have never heard of the website "Ashley Madison" and all the shock waves that were sent out throughout the United States about Men who cheat. Cheating is nothing new and has been around along as there has been mankind. According to Media reports at the time most, and I repeat MOST had no idea that their man was on this website! I came to this website for help and advice and instead all I got was Personal Character Assassinations, Insults and called a Sociopath. Have a nice day! Good bye! FU!!! Know what else has been around forever? Genocide. Does that make it ok? Bad argument..what else you got? 1
Redhead14 Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 You cannot assassinate the character of someone who doesn't have any . . . 1
ExpatInItaly Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 OP, you referred to her as your girlfriend in your thread title. Then you said you've only been out twice. Those are two entirely different scenarios. Which is it? 3
Redhead14 Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 OP, you referred to her as your girlfriend in your thread title. Then you said you've only been out twice. Those are two entirely different scenarios. Which is it? The OP said down in the thread later somewhere, that he actually really likes her and maybe could be his girlfriend. So, I'd say, that basically, he was trying to sow some wild oats before he proceeded with her. But, the fact that he called her his girlfriend in the title is what caused, me at least, to want to beat him down. I still think that his attitude in the opening post was smug, disrespectful, egoistic and a sign of being a dishonest person for trying to figure out if he was sneaky enough to avoid being found out. These are not good qualities to have in a man. 1
spiderowl Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 Although women tend to be highly intuitive about such things, she doesn't know you that well yet. However, she will pick up on patterns as time goes on, so it depends how often you make 'mistakes'. If you have a similar circle of friends, I expect word will get back to her anyway.
Dis Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 You're lucky your gf isnt a witch You can be sure my ex regrets cheating on me and will for awhile Whats your gf's number?...I'd be happy to give her some tips
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