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I already know that I'm a dog, please answer as she has acted very differently towards me! Yes I showered and changed clothes LOL!

I never told her!

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you only think she has acted different towards you because you are being paranoid and know exactly what you did. I don't know if you are intentions are to tell her or not and only you will act accordingly.

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I'm sure she will figure it out eventually. Prepare to be dumped. And possibly to have rotting fish sewn into your curtains. Deservedly so. Enjoy!

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You should tell her because your stupid decision has potentially put her health at risk.

 

And then, I expect that she will dump you properly...

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Yuck. Yeah she knows. We have a built-in guilt detector to make us smarter mothers someday. Don't you remember wondering how your mom knew about all the bad stuff you did at school that day when she was nowhere to be seen? Or is my mom the only one who had that superpower...

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I already know that I'm a dog, please answer as she has acted very differently towards me! Yes I showered and changed clothes LOL!

I never told her!

 

Women have an uncanny sense for these things. However, the smell of endorphins and estrogen can hang heavy on a person even after a shower. So while she may not know what's what, that triggers something in her.

 

And, don't forget, when a man sticks his penis in another woman, it will turn blue when he uses it again with his significant other. The chemical differences between the two vaginal environments cause a chemical reaction -- it's similar to using litmus paper.

 

I already know that I'm a dog -- I would expect that kind of behavior from a dog and I still have respect for them . . . you on the other hand . . .

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Many women are very intuitive and can sense the slightest thing "off" in the person they are focused on. It's that simple.

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I already know that I'm a dog, please answer as she has acted very differently towards me! Yes I showered and changed clothes LOL!

I never told her!

 

That's probably your guilty conscious more than anything.

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Many women are very intuitive and can sense the slightest thing "off" in the person they are focused on. It's that simple.

 

Some men are the same way. Anything off gets the Spidey sense tingling.

 

Some people are just observant.

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I knew when my ex did, yes.

 

It was obvious something wasn't right; my intuition was spot on.

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I already know that I'm a dog, please answer as she has acted very differently towards me! Yes I showered and changed clothes LOL!

I never told her!

 

Do you honestly think this is funny? It isn't funny, it is offensive.

 

In answer to your question, yes, I suspect she does know something. If she was the person you mentioned in your previous posts, I can see that it must be pretty early in the relationship, and you were playing games with her then, so she is probably still a little mistrustful of you and will notice the little things that will give you away.

 

The good thing is that this still a new relationship so when she finds out for certain what a "dog" you are, then hopefully she will find it easier to kick you to the curb and never look back.

 

Make no mistake, your actions will be devastating to her.

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Some men are the same way. Anything off gets the Spidey sense tingling.

 

Some people are just observant.

 

I agree. my Spidey senses told me there was something wrong when my ex showed up with no underwear. At that point I knew there was something wrong lol.

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Honestly, I have always been able to sense my boyfriends' unfaithfulness by their behavior afterwards. I don't know what specifically gives it away, but I believe some women just know.

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She probably doesn't directly know, but she knows.

 

My ex cheated on me 4 months into our relationship. There were a ton of red flags I was picking up on. His subtle behavior changes, I noticed it all. I might not have known what it meant at the time, but I was aware of it. It even led me to snooping through his phone. I found nothing.

 

I was stupid and in love and that's why I trusted him 110% when in reality, I didn't even know who he was as a person at only 4 months together. Had I been more logical than emotional back then? I would have accused him of cheating. 100%.

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Do you honestly think this is funny? It isn't funny, it is offensive.

 

In answer to your question, yes, I suspect she does know something. If she was the person you mentioned in your previous posts, I can see that it must be pretty early in the relationship, and you were playing games with her then, so she is probably still a little mistrustful of you and will notice the little things that will give you away.

 

The good thing is that this still a new relationship so when she finds out for certain what a "dog" you are, then hopefully she will find it easier to kick you to the curb and never look back.

 

Make no mistake, your actions will be devastating to her.

 

 

We only dated twice so I hardly think that qualifies as a "committed" relationship!

For all I know she's seeing/slept with someone else also, who knows!

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We only dated twice so I hardly think that qualifies as a "committed" relationship!

For all I know she's seeing/slept with someone else also, who knows!

 

This is pertinent info that would've been good to know up front.

 

Sleeping with another woman when you've only gone out with someone twice, is a lot different that cheating on an established partner.

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I also can't get over your "LOL" at the end of your post. Says a lot in my humble opinion.

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I also can't get over your "LOL" at the end of your post. Says a lot in my humble opinion.

 

I had the same thought.

 

Lol

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I had the same thought.

 

Lol

 

The OP is juvenile, petty and on an ego trip . . .

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Some men are the same way. Anything off gets the Spidey sense tingling.

 

Some people are just observant.

 

Its like when your mother knew you had just done something really naughty and managed to extract it from you with out the need to peel off your finger nails. She just had to give you "that" look...

 

She will know.

 

You have only been on 2 dates so its not like you are in a full blown relationship.

 

If you want it to last keep it in your pants.

 

if you are not all that bothered then just end it and date someone else.

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I also can't get over your "LOL" at the end of your post. Says a lot in my humble opinion.

 

 

You took it the wrong way!!!

I felt guilty and bad towards her even though we've only gone out twice.

I did the "LOL" because I was surprised by her reaction to me the following day! Even though I showered, etc.. it seems she could tell something happened! How do they know?

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Its like when your mother knew you had just done something really naughty and managed to extract it from you with out the need to peel off your finger nails. She just had to give you "that" look...

 

She will know.

 

You have only been on 2 dates so its not like you are in a full blown relationship.

 

If you want it to last keep it in your pants.

 

if you are not all that bothered then just end it and date someone else.

 

Obviously I posted here, so I am bothered!

We are not in a committed relationship yet and I want to be with her, I made a mistake and I can't "undo" it!

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Oh god. We just know, okay?? That's something you'll never understand if you don't already.

 

What are you, trying to learn how to be a better, more sneaky cheater?

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Honestly, I have always been able to sense my boyfriends' unfaithfulness by their behavior afterwards. I don't know what specifically gives it away, but I believe some women just know.

Its called guilt, it oozes from every pore.

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Obviously I posted here, so I am bothered!

We are not in a committed relationship yet and I want to be with her, I made a mistake and I can't "undo" it!

 

Son, a mistake is "oh, I forgot to take the cake out of the oven". Sticking your penis in another woman is a conscious and thought out activity. If you are saying that you fell on to that woman and your pecker accidentally got stuck in her vagina, well that is a first for man-kind.

 

You cannot undo this. What you can do, is get a conscience that is active and engaged prior to making decisions and develop insight and forethought for consequences of potentially poor decisions.

 

In this case, you have perhaps been "lucky" because technically, you do not "owe" this woman anything. But, if you continue with her, you need to grow up.

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