Biofrog Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 It's been almost 2 years, pretty bad breakup, which he initiated. I was very bitter and not a nice person when it involved him but I have since put it in the past and am much happier. I never gave any thought to the idea of him wanting to get back together until recently when I noticed a change in his behavior (previously completely ignored me and now tries to have a conversation with me when we see each other), among other things. So, do dumpers ever not reach out, even if they want to get back together? If so, why wouldn't they? First time around, he was not very forward and told me he probably would not have made a move if I hadn't done something first, even though he had liked me for awhile.
Simon Phoenix Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 Two years? I think it's time to move forward. If they want you back, they'll let you know, but stop wasting time waiting around. Why are you interacting with him regularly? 1
Jiivy Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 I'm sure there are dumpers who want to contact their ex's. I'm sure there are even those that feel guilty and wish they could undo everything. But what does it say to their character if they haven't got the strength to be humble or serious enough to say it? Being a shy guy is not the same as being a coward. Are you sure you are not mixing those two things? He left you; don't you think you deserve better than a man who has you fixing his mistakes?
NopeNah Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 I'd like to call my ex to see how she's doing,but I won't. I'd like to be able to get back to where/how we first started,but I can't. So...No. I will never reach out to her again. I was the dumper.
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