jen1447 Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 On topic -keep it sparky by not being overly familiar. My peeps are usually hungry for me by the time I get to seeing each of them. Hunger is good.
No_Go Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 Sparks - I associate with bed experiences, cuddle times or interesting dates out. Sparks in the rest of the time for me are annoying & distracting. To feel fully comfortable with the person the sparks need to 'settle'. I personally can't focus on anything else when I feel too 'sparky' (and there is work to be done;)), and also they create a foundation for bouts of jealousy, clinginess and other unhealthy behaviors...
Author Toodaloo Posted August 17, 2016 Author Posted August 17, 2016 And here I am pooping w the door open ....to each their own Why does every thread end up being about pooping btw? I have to or my dog goes absolutely off her rocker... Barks and barks until I open the door and let her sit on my feet... I have no idea why it ends up being about poop...
jen1447 Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 I have to or my dog goes absolutely off her rocker... Barks and barks until I open the door and let her sit on my feet... I have no idea why it ends up being about poop... Yeah, my cat has to be in there too. Doesn't give a damn about much else consistently but the toilet action is prime. Seems like you could have a thread about mortgages or tax returns and it'll still end up being about poop eventually.
Author Toodaloo Posted August 17, 2016 Author Posted August 17, 2016 Yeah, my cat has to be in there too. Doesn't give a damn about much else consistently but the toilet action is prime. Seems like you could have a thread about mortgages or tax returns and it'll still end up being about poop eventually. And when I am in the bath... Usually I ma lucky and she just goes to sleep by the side but every now and then its mass panics and a bundle of fur comes flying over the side into the bath with me. Either that or she will put her paws up on the side and bark at me to get out and be with her.
jen1447 Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 And when I am in the bath... Usually I ma lucky and she just goes to sleep by the side but every now and then its mass panics and a bundle of fur comes flying over the side into the bath with me. Either that or she will put her paws up on the side and bark at me to get out and be with her. Maybe she's scared you're drowning. My cat's not scared, she just stares at me like "taking a poop eh?"
RecentChange Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 Awwe, come on! I wanted some more spark tips! Not to talk about pets and poop! (both of which I find to be spark killers!) Hum, he wants to get his 65' Merc going again. We used to cruise along the coast in that boat of a car in our 20's. I think drives in the Merc are in order. Oh, and trips! We are headed to Lake Tahoe next weekend - for no particular reason. Hotel sex is always fun. Looking forward to a get away (and more excuses to dress up, go out and have fun). 1
Grisho Posted August 17, 2016 Posted August 17, 2016 Spontaneously do loving things. Buy them a gift simply because it's Tuesday. Write them something personal on the bathroom mirror because it's 5 o' clock. Do not only celebrate occasions; celebrate your loved one once a week. Also, never assume that, because [your birthday/Xmas] is incidental to you, that you are able to ignore that it means something to your partner. Don't get into the habit of associating materialism (like ostentatious gifts) with love. Experiences are much more meaningful than phones and cars. It's never ok to excuse yourself from helping at home with chores, whether cooking or cleaning the toilet. If you need to, go to cookery classes, but don't sit daily at the shared dining table expecting to be served. Cook willingly. Cook together. Make your spouses favourite meal once a month. Clean up without being asked and without complaint. The concept of home is established when partners work together. 1
Leigh 87 Posted August 18, 2016 Posted August 18, 2016 I am not a very romantic person. To be honest, if people have to go to lengths just to FEEL the spark.... then yeah. For me, it is just the look in his eyes when he looks at me. Or when his eyes get overwhelmed with love and lust - and you realise it GROWS stronger the longer you are together (as opposed to starting out honeymoony and disipating). A lot of the spark for me is just innate, and only really dampens if we are A holes to each other.
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