SpecialK727 Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 Ok lets start - I have been seeing my co-worker for a year and half. It started out strictly sexual but as luck would have it - real feelings started to develop for me - he says he loves me and blah blah blah. This is the problem. He doesn't take me out anywhere, comes to my home once every month and the rest of the time we see each other at work - even have sex at work when we have a chance to go to one of the offices - it was fun and exciting in the beginning but after hearing excuse after excuse about how busy he is, how he is in school, working, blah blah blah and several breakups prior because of the same issue, last week I mentioned it to him again. His exact words were "If i give you 4 hours then you will want 8" I felt so hurt told him to keep his 4 hours and that was that I am done. It has been 5 days now - (not long). He has been texting and coming around says he needs me and loves me and my feelings on it is that it is total B.S. - because the one thing I am paying attention to now is that nothing in his texts says I am going to change and we are going to do this or that - its all B.S. What does everyone think about this sitution - its ok to be brutally honest as I know I have been a fool. A 49 year old fool-too old to be tolerating that nonsence.
JewelD Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 He may be married or have a girlfriend. That would explain why he's not willing to be seen with you anywhere in public. Seems like he just wants sex, since you're not going out on dates or anything. Do you share time together that doesn't involve sex? If not, that's probably why he's not willing to spend more time with you. Unless you really like the sex and can stop the romantic feelings, might be better to let it go.
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