Reznar Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 Me and her go a long way and she likes me... We don't text all the time, just a few times a day. Basically i asked her if she likes one of her male friends yesterday (i asked this just for fun, i seriously am not jealous and didn't want to come of as jealous) since she liked his old photos and they started texting like a day or two (This guy has a gf but this situation is really strange to me since you don't just like someones photos from like 3 years ago, add him on facebook and then start texting and just be friends.). she told me sarcastically: yes, i like everyone i text... I told her i am not jealous, i am just curious, i was laughing when i was texting this since it was funny. She said she knows him from highschool but they haven't talked much because of his girlfriend. Asked her if they are still together, she said yes, and i asked why didn't his gf allow him to text you before? She made a big deal out of it and told me i am getting on her nerves with those questions, so i told her she doesn't have to be mad over stuff like that, i would just like to know because his girlfriend sounds strange, i was genuinely just curious nothing else, and we ended it there since she left me a seen on that message. Today she hasn't texted the whole day, so basically i asked: ME: are you mad? HER: no ME: Really? I don't want you to be mad over such a stupid thing HER: yes (this was the response for really) ME: Okay, if something is up you can tell me HER: I can't help you if you think i am mad but i am not... That's your problem ME: I was talking about in the future, i believe you that you are not mad HER: okay So let me guess: She is mad? xD... She could just be in a bad mood but i seriously doubt it since she always texts throughout the day. What exactly happened here? Did she lose attraction because i sounded too insecure? I think i ****ed up everything but it is all a huge misunderstanding
JewelD Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 Is this your gf or someone you're just dating? First off, you didn't ask her for 'fun', you asked her because you thought she might have some type of attraction for this guy. She said no and you kept pushing on the topic. Doesn't sound like she's mad, probably just very annoyed. If she's not your girlfriend, the questions were way out of line. If she is, you have a hard time believing her and there's some trust issues there. I would stop bringing the situation up, even to apologize about it. Just leave it alone and move forward. 2
Author Reznar Posted August 16, 2016 Author Posted August 16, 2016 Is this your gf or someone you're just dating? First off, you didn't ask her for 'fun', you asked her because you thought she might have some type of attraction for this guy. She said no and you kept pushing on the topic. Doesn't sound like she's mad, probably just very annoyed. If she's not your girlfriend, the questions were way out of line. If she is, you have a hard time believing her and there's some trust issues there. I would stop bringing the situation up, even to apologize about it. Just leave it alone and move forward. Yea she is not my girlfriend i ****ed up really bad, but i can't really do anything about that now. I just hope she didn't lose that attraction she had
ChickiePops Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 It's not that bad but at least admit to yourself that you ARE jealous. Little hint - girls like a little bit of jealousy. Not to the point of insecurity, but a little bit can be kind of fun. But as the above poster said, stop talking about it. It'll blow over. 1
Author Reznar Posted August 16, 2016 Author Posted August 16, 2016 It's not that bad but at least admit to yourself that you ARE jealous. Little hint - girls like a little bit of jealousy. Not to the point of insecurity, but a little bit can be kind of fun. But as the above poster said, stop talking about it. It'll blow over. We are not talking right now, i am giving her space and i will wait until she contacts me, if she contacts me. If she doesn't contact me by tomorrow night then i think it is over and i will move on.
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