avin07 Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 It was a match with this girl on a dating app. I met her after a few months in February and met her 5times since then. We had a really good time whenever we met and found that she was a lot similar to me in all respects. During one of these meetings, she said that she is currently into her career and not in the dating app anymore. I told her that i like her in June. She told that she was in a relationship with a guy before and things went really bad and she is still trying to get off it. She also said that she doesn't even know me well, and doesn't want to get into a relationship right now and wants to concentrate on her work. I responded to her saying that i just wanted to be true to her without hiding anything and hence i opened up to her. Well, she still keeps in touch, we talk a lot on phone at least once in a week. How should i get her attracted back to me? Should i use the "no contact" method for a week or two to create attraction? I am head over heels for this girl, and i try not to show it much as i don't want to sound desperate. Please help, as I have no clue how to go about this.
Rimbaud59 Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 (edited) She's not interested. Don't waste your time on someone that has very low interest in you. You can't make her feel something for you that she doesn't feel. If you're not interested in a girl, physically, I doubt her going no-contact would make you attract her. You're projecting your high interest onto her and ignoring how she feels. It's not about you. And stop talking to her on the phone. You're not her therapist. Edited August 16, 2016 by Rimbaud59 1
Toodaloo Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 She's not interested. Don't waste your time on someone that has very low interest in you. You can't make her feel something for you that she doesn't feel. If you're not interested in a girl, physically, I doubt her going no-contact would make you attract her. You're projecting your high interest onto her and ignoring how she feels. It's not about you. And stop talking to her on the phone. You're not her therapist. This... and damn you need to start following your own advice...
smackie9 Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 Go spend your time pursing someone else. If you can't seal the deal within a few weeks, then you know you are just wasting your time.
Rimbaud59 Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 This... and damn you need to start following your own advice... Ha ha I know this. Unlike this fellow, though, I sealed the deal pretty early on and on a consecutive basis. I'm just surprised it's over so quickly after she was chasing me so much - and then the pendulum swung the other way. My ex is about as interested as this girl
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