Angeleyez2583 Posted July 2, 2005 Posted July 2, 2005 So I've been in a relationship with a guy for about 2 weeks. It's been fun and all, but I honestly am indifferent to the whole thing. My last relationship gave me butterflies, and this one is just like, whatever. I'm enjoying it but could this develop into some sort of love or am I just wasting my time? Something in my gut just doesn't feel right about the whole thing. I mean I'm attracted to him. He treats me well (he brought me roses when he knew I had a tough day at clinicals), I like his personality. He's fun, etc etc. What's my problem? I don't want to settle for anything less then I deserve and don't feel like I am with this guy, but whatever happened to those butterflies?
Dasani Posted July 2, 2005 Posted July 2, 2005 lol why cant i buy even a single rose for a girl i've been dating for 2 weeks and and she not say WHOA now.. TOO MUCH! (happend twice =P)
d'Arthez Posted July 2, 2005 Posted July 2, 2005 It could be various reasons, I feel. One could be a neurobiological, if I am not mistaken: that due to (recent) past experiences, your body cannot produce the effect. It would have little to do with the guy you are now dating. But it still is no guarantee that he is Mr. Right or not.
Marshbear Posted July 3, 2005 Posted July 3, 2005 How long was it between you breakup with the ex and your new b/f? Sometimes when we don't let enough time lapse between the last encounter we feel numb and our emotions are on standby. Maybe you need to re-think if you are ready to date at this time. The saying that states "the fastest way to get over an ex is to get a new one" is not always true for everyone. If you were really in-love with your ex then it is very hard to switch those feelings to another. Go slow and be sure of what you want. When you are ready you will feel it....
Author Angeleyez2583 Posted July 3, 2005 Author Posted July 3, 2005 It's been about 4 months since the breakup, and my ex and I are really close... so who knows
Sweets1919 Posted July 3, 2005 Posted July 3, 2005 Sometimes the "butterflies" come when someone is more "infatuated" with their partner instead of seeing them as the "regular" person they are. Sometimes it's good to look at the qualities and the character of the person to see if they are someone you want to be invovled with and not just go by the butterflies. But seeing it is so early in your relationship, make sure you have attraction to the person....if you do and you guys are compatible...it sounds like you are on a great start!
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