shahjskalio Posted August 15, 2016 Posted August 15, 2016 I started dating guy 2 weeks ago. We've been talking everyday but have only met twice. The thing that I find weird is he never planned our first date/second date in advance. It's always last minute. For example, he says lets meet sunday and then says we'll figure out time and place later in the week. So then sunday comes and he tells me where he wants to meet. It's so last minute! He contacts me everyday, we talk most of the day. But then when it's time to meet it's as if he wusses out. We planned to meet today, also I didn't know any details until last minute and then he made an excuse saying it's late everything will be closed. But he's the one who wanted to meet at that time. I keep feeling as if he scared... what could be wrong guys? Could it be he's a bit scared to date me?
JoeSmith357-1 Posted August 15, 2016 Posted August 15, 2016 He's got 2 or 3 (or more) other women on the hook, and is using you as the "date of last resort". So deal with this accordingly...
basil67 Posted August 15, 2016 Posted August 15, 2016 If I understand correctly, there are two problems. 1, he didn't book anywhere early enough for the first two dates and 2, he stood you up on the third because it was too late. I don't see not booking early as a problem. Many of my best nights out have come as a result of choosing where to go on the fly. You really only need to book if it's a busy restaurant and is likely to be booked out. Standing you up is a different story. I would be surprised if he's scared. More likely he got another offer. 1
Redhead14 Posted August 15, 2016 Posted August 15, 2016 I started dating guy 2 weeks ago. We've been talking everyday but have only met twice. The thing that I find weird is he never planned our first date/second date in advance. It's always last minute. For example, he says lets meet sunday and then says we'll figure out time and place later in the week. So then sunday comes and he tells me where he wants to meet. It's so last minute! He contacts me everyday, we talk most of the day. But then when it's time to meet it's as if he wusses out. We planned to meet today, also I didn't know any details until last minute and then he made an excuse saying it's late everything will be closed. But he's the one who wanted to meet at that time. I keep feeling as if he scared... what could be wrong guys? Could it be he's a bit scared to date me? He's keeping his options open. You're a back burner girl . . . Have you been intimate with him yet?
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