falxmanolo Posted August 14, 2016 Posted August 14, 2016 Hey guys! I'm a mid twenty year old girl and I've recently met this guy at work (but he's moved on to a new work place, we literally met on the stair case while he was moving out his stuff). Didn't think about him much except of course, he was RIDICULOUSLY cute :love:I let it go considering he's moving to a new place etc. Fast forward next week, I run into him at the grocery store. We talk some more, I'm blushing because he's so cute and we end up going for dinner the same night (still wearing my work clothes ugh). I haven't had a boyfriend in THREE years. I have been so out of the dating game. I didn't even think he would be interested in me like anymore than a friend. But we exchanged numbers and we texted back and forth. I know this may annoy some of you.. but his texting is so old school! He checks his texts like twice a day and texts me full sentences. He's 30, I'm 25. We went out for dinner another time and it was so lovely! Time just flew, typical romantic night. He hugged and patted me good night. Questions on my mind that I would be so grateful if people could help answer 1. How do I know that we had a date? Was dinner we had classed as date? 2. Is he interested in me? He texts me more now and when we're hanging he's super focussed on everything I say/do. 3. But how do I know that a man likes me as more than friend? Or is he trying to see if he likes me as more than friend by going out for dinner? 4. Patting me good night...is that normal? 5. Last time we met was on thursday. We've texted here and there all weekend but no plans for further meetings have been made? Dammit! Wish I dated more guys so that i knew better! Also, a part of me tells me, if he likes me, I will know because his actions will speak louder. I'm also PETRIFIED of dating and having my heart broken (i know i cringe too). But I feel this connection with this guy and I want to see where it goes! Thanks guys!
leogirl876 Posted August 14, 2016 Posted August 14, 2016 The only way to know is to see if he keeps calling and asking you out. If he quits asking you out, there's your answer. You'll just have to be patient. 1
TXGuy Posted August 15, 2016 Posted August 15, 2016 Hey guys! ... Questions on my mind that I would be so grateful if people could help answer 1. How do I know that we had a date? Was dinner we had classed as date? 2. Is he interested in me? He texts me more now and when we're hanging he's super focussed on everything I say/do. 3. But how do I know that a man likes me as more than friend? Or is he trying to see if he likes me as more than friend by going out for dinner? 4. Patting me good night...is that normal? 5. Last time we met was on thursday. We've texted here and there all weekend but no plans for further meetings have been made? Yes, it was a date. Most men don't waste time going to dinner with women they are not romantically interested in. The fact that he continues to text (more) and is focussed on you is a good sign he is still interested. You can sit back and expect him to do all of the work. That is a popular strategy here at LS. Alternatively, you can send him indicators of interest or even suggest a date yourself. 1
Author falxmanolo Posted August 15, 2016 Author Posted August 15, 2016 (edited) Have you verified he is single and not married? Yup! He asked me if I was seeing anybody and when I asked him back, he said he was single. His last relationship ended in February this year. I wonder if he still has issues with his ex? But that's just too much for me to hypothesise right? Another thing that bothers me is that he hasn't added me on Facebook. I stalked his Facebook and from what I can see, the photos with his ex stopped around December/November last year. I know this sounds paranoid but I really don't want to be played!! Edited August 15, 2016 by falxmanolo Extra piece of info
Author falxmanolo Posted August 15, 2016 Author Posted August 15, 2016 Hey guys!! Would greatly appreciate some help please!!
summertitparadise Posted August 16, 2016 Posted August 16, 2016 Observe his patterns and behaviors towards you and other ladies. You can find the answer.
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