brittani Posted July 2, 2005 Posted July 2, 2005 This is my first time to do this so here it goes... Me and my boyfriend have only been together for a couple of months, but we have spent pretty much everyday with each other so i feel like i've know him forever. I love him more than anything and he says he feels the same, but it seems like he doesn't want to hang out with me as much as we did. I could spend every second with him, if it was up to me. Well it wouldn't be a big deal if he didn't pop pills, when he was with his friends. So we made a deal we would only do them if we were together or meeting up soon. Well he went off with his friends and i went to my friends and chilled in the hot tub dranking. Long story short he and all his friends were suppose to be back by 10:00 they didn't get there till 12:00. I trust him around girls SOBER not on bars. I feel like we are falling apart, what should i do?
Zaira Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 1. Don't smother him 2. Tell him of your fears 3. Don't make him your whole life 4. Find things that you enjoy doing by yourself
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Posted July 4, 2005 The pillpopping is serious (VB's question is very appropriate here) but the rest is not. Relax take the pressure off him and strike an even balance between having individual lives and doing stuff together.
jlove421 Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 When I first met my boyfriend, things were pretty similar. We worked together so we were ALWAYS together and when he started seeing his friends more, I did get worried. But it wasn't until I realized that I enjoyed spending time with my friends just as much as he enjoyed spending time with his. It's very healthy in a relationship to do things on your own. You should never devote ALL of your time to just him because then your friends get resentful and when you need them, they may not be there. The best thing to do is to is talk about your feelings. Communication is so important in a relationship.
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