Need Some Info From The Girls On This Thread.. >>>PLEASE HELP<<<

[LostandNeverFound]

K I have no idea where to put this so i stuck it here.

 

K last Saturday me and a buddy went out for dinner and we had a wicked waitress like our meal took like almost 3 hour because we were talking to her so much. She is super hott and just a wicked person all around and we have lots of common interests.

But here are my questions when I asked her if she has a boyfriend she said yeah but they are really rocky right now??? (What on earth is that spose to mean)

 

Second I asked her for her digits and she said she dose not just give them out to anyone because of her job. (I understand that there are lots of weird people in this world.) So she invited me to this bar that she goes to on Thursday and she said she would give me her number there.

So I went out of the blue and went and she still said she wanted to get to know me better before she gave me here number. So when i left she walked me out and she told me to come visit her on Friday at work. So I went down last night but she was not working that late.

So my question is I am going down tonight to try and make up for last night and I am going to ask her but if I don't get a number what the hell should i do??

Like she works like 40 mins from my house and I don't mind but it is a little madding when i drive there to see her and she is not even there.

[greenhorn]

Originally posted by LostandNeverFound

K I have no idea where to put this so i stuck it here.

 

Cool!

 

She is super hott and just a wicked person all around and we have lots of common interests.

 

Wasn't that superfast for concluding about common interest, I mean you can talk about n number of things but that does mean they are interests, secondly, your words are bit conflicting.

 

But here are my questions when I asked her if she has a boyfriend she said yeah but they are really rocky right now??? (What on earth is that spose to mean)

 

This means that she is looking out for her options.

 

Second I asked her for her digits and she said she dose not just give them out to anyone because of her job. (I understand that there are lots of weird people in this world.) So she invited me to this bar that she goes to on Thursday and she said she would give me her number there.

So I went out of the blue and went and she still said she wanted to get to know me better before she gave me here number. So when i left she walked me out and she told me to come visit her on Friday at work. So I went down last night but she was not working that late.

So my question is I am going down tonight to try and make up for last night and I am going to ask her but if I don't get a number what the hell should i do??

Like she works like 40 mins from my house and I don't mind but it is a little madding when i drive there to see her and she is not even there.

 

If she has said that she would give out her number only after she knows you better, and if you want her number then there is only one way, do as she says. Fix few more dates and get her number. Don't rush through , it shows just physical attraction and nothing about common interests and stuff.

 

I think she is not sincere and playing games with you, she said she would give her number at the bar and she didn't gave it , she asked you to come on Friday and she was not there all this does not give a positive outlook about her. But if you are really interested then you may want to give one more chance before calling it off.

[LostandNeverFound]

Originally posted by greenhorn

I think she is not sincere and playing games with you, she said she would give her number at the bar and she didn't gave it , she asked you to come on Friday and she was not there all this does not give a positive outlook about her. But if you are really interested then you may want to give one more chance before calling it off.

 

 

Yeah that is what I was thinking about the whole games thing. But I think I will give it one more shot tonight I guess. I can't get her out of the brain and guess I have to give it to my self for that one more shot.

 

But thanks for the insite. Never the less it helps to get other peoples thoughts.

[LostandNeverFound]

For F**K Sake my car broke down.

I was not able to make it to see her tonight and having no way to contact her for lack of a phone number.

So I guess I will have to wait and see her next weekend.

 

Do you think this is going to be a problem like she may think I lost interest??? (because I sure haven't)

[greenhorn]

Originally posted by LostandNeverFound

For F**K Sake my car broke down.

I was not able to make it to see her tonight and having no way to contact her for lack of a phone number.

So I guess I will have to wait and see her next weekend.

 

Do you think this is going to be a problem like she may think I lost interest??? (because I sure haven't)

 

Hmm, it was not probable that when you go there , you would have met her. Actually the problem is not your losing interest but whether she is interested or not. So next week give it a one more try and I dont think she would think you lost interest.

[LostandNeverFound]

Yeah LoL I guess that is the major thing to see if she is even intreasted at all. Well I guess we wait till next week and see I will post when I get a reply.

[greenhorn]

Originally posted by LostandNeverFound

Yeah LoL I guess that is the major thing to see if she is even intreasted at all. Well I guess we wait till next week and see I will post when I get a reply.

 

 

Yep, that will be better, keep updating us. You go there next weekend, but I would suggest don't put too much hope in it. Don't think too much about the results, and this way you will not be that much affected by the outcome, whatever it is.

 

good luck