swimmergirl17 Posted August 12, 2016 Posted August 12, 2016 (edited) Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 1 Should I break up with him? Hey, I am new here but thought I could hopefully get some good advice. So I was with this guy 3 years ago, we never actually dated but we had an on going thing for a couple years and I was head over heels in love with him. I am am 2 years younger than him and finishing up high school now. Back during my sophomore year he started sleeping with his ex again and we didn't talk for a long while. When I was going into my junior year he told me he was leaving and going into the military. We started talking again and I became his shoulder to lean on throughout his military beginning. He was still dating his ex at this point but I heard how unhappy they were. I then started dating a new guy and things were great! I love his family and everything he has to offer. I thought I loved him too but now im questioning. The military guy came home and is broken up with his girlfriend....again. We text a lot and have been hanging out. My boyfriend knows, I tell him when it happens. However he doesn't know that im falling for the other guy again. Please help military guy leaves in a week and wont see me again if im still dating my bf. Edited August 12, 2016 by swimmergirl17
smackie9 Posted August 12, 2016 Posted August 12, 2016 Stay away from this military guy. He has never been emotionally available to you, and uses you whenever he needs his shoulder rubbed for sympathy. That fails. So what if he has broken up with his ex.....they are just going to find themselves back romping each other in a week or two. He is unstable. It would be in your best interest to cut all ties with him so you can actually move on and enjoy what the new guy has to offer you......a whole lot more than what military guy ever will in a life time. It's a no brainer. 2
Mrin Posted August 12, 2016 Posted August 12, 2016 First off, stay away from MilitaryGuy. Bad news. That being said, before you see MilitaryGuy again (and have sex) break it off with NewGuy. Also, be sure to use protection.
fireflywy Posted August 13, 2016 Posted August 13, 2016 First off, stay away from MilitaryGuy. Bad news. That being said, before you see MilitaryGuy again (and have sex) break it off with NewGuy. Also, be sure to use protection. And don't EVER come running back to NewGuy when you realize how badly you messed up by sleeping with MilitaryGuy.
DramaInPajamas Posted August 13, 2016 Posted August 13, 2016 You are just finishing up high school now? So 18? This has been going on since you were 15/16? Military guy as been bouncing between you and his ex for year and you're not out of high school yet. How about NO guys? None at all? Live your life and enjoy it and forget about men and do what makes you happy?
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