Fener1907 Posted August 12, 2016 Posted August 12, 2016 Whilst on holiday, a drop dead gorgeous girl approached me in a nightclub, we got talking and within a few short minutes we were kissing like there was no tomorrow. She asked for my phone number, Snapchat & Instagram, all signs of high interest. We met up the next night and had a great time, again, kissing, dancing etc. She wanted me to message her once I got back to the UK but I waited until she was back too so that she could enjoy the rest of her holiday. Once I did, we exchanged flirty messages every few days for the next 2 weeks in which time she numerously mentioned and was adamant she was coming to visit me sometime this summer. After confirming a date for her coming to visit, she cancelled a few days before giving me a petty excuse. This is a bad sign and came about as a bit of a shock to me I must say. Once I asked her when she would like to re-schedule, she told me that she was going to France and that she would be free to come see me after the 10th of August and for me to let her know. I haven't replied nor contacted her since then (2 weeks ago) in which she is now back in the UK. Doesn't mean much but she has liked my Instagram posts during her time on holiday. But would you guys think it's my responsibility to initiate the next conversation and try to arrange the meet-up, considering the fact she did bail on me? If this was a local girl, I would have stopped pursuing but the problem is that she lives in Wales whereas I live in the North of the UK, which is about 6 or 7 hours away. I have thus gave her the benefit of the doubt as we are both 18 year old students still living with our parents, she would therefore need to ask her parents for some money as she doesn't work. In her parents eyes I believe am just a guy she met twice on holiday. I know it is a big ask for her to come all that way but if she really wanted to see me she would have, right? Bottom line, from the last message she has sent me she still wants to meet but how should I approach this situation without coming off as needy and/or weak? Advice would be much appreciated, thanks.
PegNosePete Posted August 12, 2016 Posted August 12, 2016 She said for you to let her know when is suitable after Aug 10th when she is back. So yes ball is in your court. Just give her a date that you are available. But one more flake and I would move on.
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