trippi1432 Posted August 12, 2016 Posted August 12, 2016 I've run into a couple of issues here in the dating department, I would say this needs to be in the sexual health thread...but ED isn't about me, it's about dating someone with the issue. I've met a couple of guys over the years that had this issue (the latest one dumped me this past weekend). First they say they shouldn't have jerked off earlier to blaming it on porno. This guy admitted his issue was he was still in love with his ex (2 years separated) when he stated several times he would never go back to her. TBH, I think his issues evolved and he pulled me in when he found out she had a new lover.... How do you parse these men in the dating world? Should you? It's not their fault, but they will dump you even when you want to help them....even after they have been more than just a sexual relationship and mean more to you than just that. To emotionally invest in a man who has ED was a hard lesson last year, it makes me leery of investing any of myself in one today....as much as I know there is more to dating and relationships than sex, I understand a man with ED doesn't see things that way. Understandably there are medical solutions for this...but what about when ED is in the mind. What are the dating signs to avoid those men?
leogirl876 Posted August 12, 2016 Posted August 12, 2016 Run!!! My ex has ED issues and it never gets better! It was also because he jerked off too much, but I was selfish for asking him to reduce it. Yeah, I'm selfish because it was significantly hurting our sex life! Even when he took medication, it was always a problem. Don't waste your time, their d*ck issues, will always be there, and they'll find some way to blame you! Unless you wanna deal with regular sexual frustration, and a limp you know what, I'd walk away, I'm telling you, it never gets better, it only leads to frustration!
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