Sunny18 Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 Hi guys! I basically need an opinion on my boyfriends behavior. He doesn't think it's bad or wrong to do what he is doing and it's making me really hurt. I am going on a family trip right now actually and am traveling pretty far from him for a couple days only. I told him about this right as I found out and he's known for about a month now that I was going. He started accusing me of cheating on him and that he doesn't feel comfortable and trust me going on this trip. I never cheated on him or gave him a reason to think that. I have always been faithful. But now I am at the airport and at first he was threatening to never see me again when I come back, but then he promised me he would see me on Sunday. So I guess that's fine. But I asked him what he is up to, and he literally just texted me a bunch of periods, and then said "talking to someone cool). And I just told him that's good and I'm happy he met someone to talk to and he responded with "not good for you." He has done this before and it makes me feel that he is cheating on me or trying to. Part of me knows and thinks he is bluffing and trying to get me mad and miserable on this trip but Its working. Im scared now that he is talking to someone. I told him 100 times I wouldn't cheat on him because I love him and I would never do that and he never believed me. He kept saying that I'm gonna kiss someone or do something with someone. Even tho that's not true. And now he is making me feel he is going to cheat? And I keep asking him to tell me he isn't going to hurt me but he just ignores me. Ugh I'm not enjoying this trip already. How do I make him stop and actually trust me? And just make him stop trying to freak me out. Or is he cheating on me?
Gaeta Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 How old is this fantastic man of yours? How long dating? Where are you on vacation?
BaileyB Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 I would kick him to the curb... That kind of behavior would not be acceptable to me and I would never give a second thought to "how I could make him trust me" or whether he is cheating or not. Sorry, this guy is not a keeper. 2
smackie9 Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 I know you love him, but he doesn't deserve that love. Your love will never fix his behavior. He is manipulative, passive/aggressively mentally abusing you. Yes what he is doing is abuse, and it's way bad. You do not date a person that goes out of their way to hurt you. Sorry but you need to let him go. I bet money on it your family has told you the same thing. Please breakup with him. There is a nice guy out there that would never treat you this way. 1
kendahke Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 And you're with this jerk why? Why are you even dealing with someone this immature and vindictive? A guy who accuses you of cheating when you're going on a family vacation needs to be dropped off at the mall. Seriously.
Rockdad Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 Here is your future when you get past todays episode. Everytime he feels insecure about your where abouts or what your doing he will break out the your cheating on him. Hope you enjoy immature manipulation because you are going to have a full diet of it.
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