Peggy92 Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 Hello! I would like an advice because I don't know what to do. So I like this guy. He is a friend of my friend. We used to flirt a little (Mostly him because he had a girlfriend back then and I didn't want to get in the middle). Then one day he said something to me and I got mad at him. The same night I got a little bit drunk and I was talking to him ironically and in general I was in a bad mood. He got mad at me and told in front of me that I am really annoying. I apologized immediately but he kept on saying bad things. The next day he texted our mutual friend that he was feeling bad about talking to me like that. he started liking almost everything I posted on Facebook. We met again a month later. He seemed to be really awkward but I was talking to him like nothing had happened.The following weeks things between us seemed to be ok ( he works as bartender and one night he didn't let me pay in the bar that he works. another time someone was hitting on me and he told him to leave me alone) A week ago he announced in front of me that he had broken up with his girlfriend and the same day I made fun of him about the night he told I was annoying. He seemed to feel bad about it and said that he has to make up for that. I sent him a funny picture yesterday and tried to start a conversation but it seemed like he didn't want to. I don't get it. I know that my behavior towards him wasn't the best but now I try my best. I try to flirt with him and he seems responsive. Telling him how I feel is out of the picture because I am too shy and coward, plus he recently broke up so I guess he may not be ready for something else. I don't know what else to do. Thank you in advance.
smackie9 Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 It's a difficult one. You are right, you don't want to get in there when he is still fresh out of a relationship. There is a possibility they will reconcile and get back together too, so it is best to back off. Keep your options open, date other guys. You can't force someone to want to date you. If he is truly interested in you, he will ask you out. Him flirting/buying you drinks/shooing away a patron, is part of his job as a bartender so don't look at those things as promise. 1
kendahke Posted August 11, 2016 Posted August 11, 2016 Don't do anything. Let him come to you. That will demonstrate his interest better than you trying to throw yourself at him. 1
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