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stillafool Established Member

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Please don't marry this woman. She has not gotten other men out of her system but doesn't want to miss her chance to marry in hopes that one day she will be satisfied. She isn't in love with you.

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Friskyone4u Established Member

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About marrying the girl, we were close to it. It is the first girl I ever thought about marrying and I'm 39 years old. If it weren't for this, I believe we would have been engaged by the end of the year.

 

Go out and get drunk and toast yourself for dodging a major bullet. I know it is not easy.

 

Doesn't sound like she put up much of a fight when you broke up with her. That ought to tell you she knew you would find out more. think about this.

 

If she was in love with you and would have been a faithful wife, she should have been crawling at your feet asking for ways to prove she had not physically cheated. She apparently never even offered access to her social media, which you should NOT HAVE HAD TO ASK FOR.

 

Time will heal you and you will find better.

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ExpatInItaly Established Member

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Go out and get drunk and toast yourself for dodging a major bullet. I know it is not easy.

 

Doesn't sound like she put up much of a fight when you broke up with her. That ought to tell you she knew you would find out more. think about this.

 

If she was in love with you and would have been a faithful wife, she should have been crawling at your feet asking for ways to prove she had not physically cheated. She apparently never even offered access to her social media, which you should NOT HAVE HAD TO ASK FOR.

 

Time will heal you and you will find better.

 

That was my thinking too. I would bet any money there's a lot more you never found out, OP.

 

Did she really offer any proof that this was all "business"? If her intentions were honourable, she'd have done what she could to show you that you had nothing to worry about. I know if I'd randomly been accused of nefarious behaviour when I had truly done nothing to warrant it, I would certainly be eager to show my partner any and all proof to the contrary.

 

It appears she didn't do that, which should tell you everything you need to know.

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