my ex finally blocked me...and it hurt...

[barbossa]

As of yesterday I noticed my ex gf had blocked me on a messaging app we both have.

 

2 days ago I sent her a message, which I have been doing since we broke up but less frequently as time passed, I would say I sent one message every 4 weeks but not exactly 4 weeks

 

my message to her was that many months had passed since our break up but that i continued to think and miss her every day.

 

We wont get back together

Yes. This part I know.

I am just not over her yet

 

I think she raised the bar for new girls

when I first met my ex, she was immediately friendly we had great conversations and there was never any huge labor to try to spend time with her.

 

 

 

Girls I meet now?

 

1)Taking forever to respond ( have time to post multiple updates and statuses but don't respond to my messages in a timely manner).....

 

I delete these girls numbers when i see repeated offenses of being time wasters. I just have low tolerance for that type of behavior. managers on linkedin respond quicker than these girls.

 

2)Just not as easy or fun to talk to

 

3)Loving to talk via text but not wanting to meet to actually meet

 

4) I try to talk to new girls I meet in public in a platonic way when i get the chance to, Just to be friendly. I do not ask them out. Just friendly conversation

 

5) Girls who have bfs already but want my attention as well. They just hide the fact and i have to figure it out by myself

 

6) tinder: I state i am not looking to hook up, I have an introduction about myself and several appropriate pictures. I personally haven't had luck. Though i think it is a good app.

 

7) I hardly blink when it doesn't work when it does not work out with any of the type of girls as mentioned above. Its frustrating yes. But if a girl I don't know rejects me i care a lot less compared to me trying to contact my ex and not getting a response.

 

Maybe she found a new bf?

I do not really know, it has been more than 8 months so I guess it is possible. I considered her to be attractive and she is popular among peers.

 

thanks for allowing me to rant

[JewelD]

Well of course she blocked you, continuously sending her messages for months and not getting a response is basically harassment.

 

It doesn't matter if your ex has a bf or not, she has made it clear she does not want to talk to you. Accept that.

 

You're obviously still not over your ex since you have been contacting her for the past 8mos. That's the real reason nothing is working out for you and the girls you meet seem less than worthy.

 

Nobody is ever going to compare if you have convinced yourself that you need your ex and she's the best thing since sliced bread.

 

Stop trying to contact her and focus on grieving the relationship. Once you've done that, you may find you have better luck with dating in the future.

[smackie9]

You are being unreasonable and a pain in the butt. You really need to let go and get over her. It's over, move on already.

[MzMelanie]

sorry that you were blocked. my ex just defriended me and several of my close friends on facebook and i feel pain and rejection all over again. i understand your hurt and i too find myself comparing every guy to my ex. i feel like i am never going to be able to move on. it really sucks.

[juniorrocha]

You never said whether she was responding or not, but according to your post, I suppose she wasn't. Now that she blocked you, maybe you'll find some self respect and stop trying to reach out to her. If she didn't respond, that means she's not interested anymore. And don't try to figure out why. Just take that as that. Start moving on.

 

2 days ago I had to block my ex on Instagram. Because she was liking every single picture I posted. And a notification popping up with her face saying she liked my picture wasn't helping at all. Maybe your ex is in that spot too. Tired of having to hear from you when she wants to heal and move on.