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Hey,

so Im a shy guy, dont really Approach women who I dont know. I started this new job a few weeks ago, and every day on the Train I see this woman. Who I find most beautiful. Ist like in the movies, every time I want to talk to her I get cold feet. Which is stupid cause I know nothing bad will actually happen even if I'll get rejected. Shes always doing crossward puzzles, or reading Harry Potter. But I dont know how can I make this a Topic cause I never read it, nor will I be helpfull with the crossward puzzles (Im in Germany, and my german is not that good yet). We make eye contact every morning with this half of a smile for politeness. So what can I do? which will hopefully not cause me an an anxiety attack :)

 

 

Thanks!

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You could read Harry Potter... Find out what its about and go from there.

 

You can keep smiling. Then one day when the train is a bit crowded ask if you can have the seat next to her...

 

Probably the best thing to do though is just start small. Say hello a few times, ask how her day was. Practice your German with her. treat her like any other human being and find out if she is as lovely a person as she looks.

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