Does she still think about me?

[Magnumblue]

Hi all, I'm going to try and make this quick and to the point while adding important details.

 

So I dated this girl about 7 years ago, we dated for only about 7 months and the break up was a bad one. I ended up getting my heart broken and I wasn't able to let go so I tried to stay in contact with her through social media and such but it got to the point where she was fed up with me and completely started to avoid me and ignore me. I think the break up was due to myself, I was 21 at the time and during that time I wasn't where I wanted to be financially and emotionally so I kind of held on to her as that positive force in my life. I believe that began to drain her my negative energy but not at all would I have considered myself a bad bf, just not secure enough in myself which was not what she wanted at the time.

 

Fast forward to now, I recently started obsessing over her social media. At first when we had broken up I was checking on her Facebook at the time but that eventually died out and I completely stopped for some time and eventually moved on. Might I add she is one of those girls that does a lot of subtweeting and during our breakup that is all that she did, was subtweet about me. I will say that now I'm happy with where I am in life, I'm doing alright, I have a girlfriend and we live together and it's all over my Instagram, and I I'm almost positive that she knows it. It's always been this social media cat and mouse game after the break up.

 

So recently I feel like she has been subtweeting about me. I just changed my phone number a few weeks ago (which had absolutely nothing to do with my ex) and she tweets "scary when your ex stalks you online and changes their number to call/text you, stop it". I've never called or text her, I don't even have her number, is this a coincidence? And yes I've had that number for over 10 years so she's had my number all along unless she deleted it. Anyway moving on, Instagram has added this snapchat like feature to it so you can see who has viewed the clips that you posted. So of course I looked at her clip, having no idea that the person can see and she goes on and tweets "have you ever avoided someone to avoid old feelings from coming back and then you see them suddenly and are like *shocked face image*", Obviously she saw that I saw her clip. There are several other tweets she's tweeted that are more subliminal and that I feel are towards me but these I feel can form some argument that they actually are. By no means is she ugly she's very attractive and so am I, and it is very possible that she can be subtweeting about other men being that we've been broken up for 7 years now with no actual contact, but I know she isn't seeing anyone and hasn't been able to keep a steady relationship.

 

I guess I'm still not over my ex, obviously. What I would like is for her to contact me or for us to speak because I feel we both have unresolved feelings but I won't contact her, I'm too prideful and when we broke up she made it clear she wanted nothing to do with me. What do you guys gather from all of this? I feel like I'm obsessing. She's very in tuned with the universe and spirituality and so am I. Is there some type of connection where we just can't move forward, or did she put a spell on me and I'm losing my mind?

[Blanco]

1) Break up with your girlfriend and let her find a guy who's fully invested in her.

2) Stop stalking your ex's social media.

3) Block your ex from all social media.

 

I'm empathetic to checking social media more than I should, but guy, it's been seven years. I highly doubt she is still pining over a relationship that didn't even last a year.

[springy]

I'm at a loss for words, truly. :eek:

 

Maybe counseling would be helpful?