Eddie Gonzales Posted August 8, 2016 Posted August 8, 2016 This girl I heard was a bit into me traveled abroad for the summer and added me on Snapchat. She then started responding to my OBVIOUS group snaps, which I saw were a positive sign. She then added me on Facebook and started liking my stuff. Then she started following me on Instagram and liking my pics there also. Afterwards we started texting. Two weeks ago, she again responded to one of my group snaps and in the evening she called me on my phone. I didn't pick up and received a text from her saying "sorry, it was a mistake. Didn't mean to call you. Sorry." Problem was, it was through Facetime on an iPhone and you can't call someone unless you're checking out their contact info? Then when I sends group snaps, she sends group snaps, but when I stop sending group snaps, she also stops sending them. When I wait or day or two to send group snaps, she ALSO waits a day or two. She's basically mirroring my actions. Even our mutual friend told me she never used to send that many group snaps before she added me on Snapchat and that she rarely sent selfies and stuff like that. Now she does it almost every damn time! Similar things have happened, so today I decided to mirror her actions and responded to her group snap and... she opened and hasn't replied (I responded with a "you look good. Have a nice day."). The **** is her problem? I would've invited her out on a date, but she's not home until a month from now, so I wanted to wait. But now she does this and I don't know if she's deliberately not answering or wth she's doing? Someone help me out.
Teddius Posted August 8, 2016 Posted August 8, 2016 You complimented her and made a brief statement, which, in themselves, doesn't require responses from her. A response, having said that, or her lack of one thus far isn't necessarily indicative of her reaction towards it. Don't jump the gun and don't pussyfoot. Speak your mind, ask or invite her out. 1
JewelD Posted August 8, 2016 Posted August 8, 2016 Stop taking social media so seriously. If you want a connection with someone, you need to at least be having convos on the phone rather than just snapchat and facebook. and you guys aren't really conversing there either, just liking each other's snaps. Just wait til she gets home and ask her out. 3
VeveCakes Posted August 8, 2016 Posted August 8, 2016 Oh my god... it's just snap chat... looking WAY too into things. Wasting WAY too much time trying to get her attention on there. Stop social media flirting until she gets back, then ask her out. 1
AMJ Posted August 8, 2016 Posted August 8, 2016 I take everything on social media with a grain of salt. Last year this guy started liking all my posts, turns out he was interested. In person he wasn't nearly as forward as he was on Facebook and things never went anywhere because after ten zillion texts, three months, and three dates, he never tried to kiss me. I'm around toddlers a lot and when one of them gets hold of my phone, they always manage to call or FaceTime people on accident. So it's believable that she didn't mean to FaceTime you. Most importantly though, and what you seem to not realize, is that if she's traveling abroad, she's preoccupied with having a fun summer doing cool things. Maybe she thinks she can weasel a date out of you when she gets home. Either way she doesn't seem too worried about it. 1
sugarpuss Posted August 8, 2016 Posted August 8, 2016 Stop taking social media so seriously. If you want a connection with someone, you need to at least be having convos on the phone rather than just snapchat and facebook. and you guys aren't really conversing there either, just liking each other's snaps. Just wait til she gets home and ask her out. Agree with this. Are you still texting her? That's what I'd recommend. P.S. Please tell me, what makes it obvious that it's a group snap? Genuinely curious bc I can never tell with my friends.
Author Eddie Gonzales Posted August 9, 2016 Author Posted August 9, 2016 Agree with this. Are you still texting her? That's what I'd recommend. P.S. Please tell me, what makes it obvious that it's a group snap? Genuinely curious bc I can never tell with my friends. Group snaps usually has a more general caption/text like "Ready 4 school guys" or "The weekend is on! Can't wait to have fun" Ok, those are bad examples but a personal snap usually has a question or something. You can just tell if something is a group snap or if it's not.
thecrucible Posted August 9, 2016 Posted August 9, 2016 It's so easy to allow social media to make you overthink things. You don't know what else is going on in her life since she is traveling. Perhaps you should just keep her on your radar but pursue other prospects for now until she comes back. Then you can make efforts to take things offline. Give her a chance to get back to you. She might be busy/thinking about other things. Also she might appreciate the compliment but not know what to say so hasn't replied. I guess her friends have seen the comment and might be asking about you. Perhaps next time she posts a photo, you can ask her a question about the setting or her travels? But then I agree with you - a bit of back and forth is good so there's a balance to be struck.
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