ishe23 Posted August 10, 2016 Posted August 10, 2016 (edited) Woah, are you dating the same guy I dumped a few months ago? He too cancelled on me and told me he was sick. It was the second time he cancelled on me in one month, and after some questions, he kept denying (lying), so I dumped his ass. To this date, he's still on OLD looking for dates and have been for the last two years. Now I know why he can't find anyone. I'm actually glad he cancelled out on me because looking back, he had so many red flags, but I was trying not to be picky. Wrong. Always have standards and stick to them. One of my male guys told me this - when a man wants you, he will do anything to be with you, especially at the beginning. No cancelling dates. Even if he really had to cancel, he would go through hoops just to make it up to you. This guy clearly has not done that. It's harder for you to see coming from your end, but it's clear for the rest of us when we're not so blinded by what we wish for. I know I am the same and why I come on here for advice because I can be blind. Edited August 10, 2016 by ishe23
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