Author jawi2016 Posted August 8, 2016 Author Posted August 8, 2016 Yeah... I was told she left because I wouldn't move. Which in our situation was true. She's got her family she's always wanted so good for her. I do know it happened after I left. She just text me a week later and said she was done. I didn't really fight her on it as I had tried to end it probably 5 times in the last couple years. Like I said... I just thought at our age she could've been more of an adult about it. It is hard for me but it's getting easier. For some reason all I think about is the great times we had and not the bad. It's been bad for a while now. This has helped and I'm hoping the counseling does too. I actually have a lot going for me and I just have to remember that. I just got a 14k a year raise at work and my kids are doing great. it is what it is. At least I'll always know that I did the right thing by my kids and didn't jump on the first thing that came along like she did. I've had a few people try to set me up in the past couple years. I just wasn't going to do it as long as her and I were still trying. She gave up. It's her loss but I get it. I'm a city guy anyways to be honest and she lives in the mountains of Georgia. I wasn't ready to let all of my opportunities go when she wasn't willing to put the work in for my kids. No regrets there.
Author jawi2016 Posted August 8, 2016 Author Posted August 8, 2016 And to be honest she was great when times were good. When things got tough she really was unsupportive. I tried my best for a long time and it just didn't work. I bent over backwards flying down there on average probably every other week for a long time. Bought her a new vehicle, put her on my checking account. She doesn't make a ton of money which is fine. I did all of that because I wanted to. It was just never enough. I'm really realizing there's better for me out there. I'm just going to work on myself before I find that person.
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