devildiablo Posted August 7, 2016 Posted August 7, 2016 I had a summer internship which ended today. On the very first day of training I met this girl who was also a new intern and I liked her instantly. Soon we started talking and I just loved everything about her, her passion, her simplicity, her work ethic, her brown eyes, the sound of her voice, just about everything. She brought out the best in me. It was because of her that I was inspired to work harder and she got me really passionate about what I was doing. And she also showed interest, she would ask me to hang out after work almost every day and it was going really well so one night I tell her how I feel and she tells me that she is dating someone else back home (we were working in atlanta and she lives in maryland) and that she was hoping that we could just continue being friends because she really loves spending time with me. After all of that, she still keeps showing interest, she still kept laughing at my stupid jokes, she still kept letting me touch her, when we'd go out clubbing, she'd get really close. Last night we went to a club with a few other coworkers but she just kept dancing with me and at one point we got really really close but being the idiot that I am, I didn't kiss her. She fell asleep on my lap on our way back. She immediately had to pack as her flight was early in the morning. I hugged her goodbye but before I could walk away, she invites me into her room and asks me to stay until she packs. Being the idiot that I am, I still don't do anything other than telling her how beautiful she is. The cab finally arrives and we hug for a minute and then I look at her face and I could see that for her too saying goodbye was very hard. Later I receive a text from her saying that she had an amazing time with me and she wishes me all the best. I don't know what to do next. I just can't stop thinking about her but she lives all the way up in maryland. I just don't know what to do next. I feel miserable.
HumanMachine Posted August 7, 2016 Posted August 7, 2016 She used you. Move on, don't ever message her again. 3
phineas Posted August 7, 2016 Posted August 7, 2016 ^^^^^^ Yep. Nothing to move on from. Women with BF's should not act this way with other men but they do. Congrats, you now know what it means to be a BF without benefits. 2
LostOnes05 Posted August 7, 2016 Posted August 7, 2016 Clean up in the feelings aisle...clean up in the feelings aisle. She just wanted attention while away from her main guy, and you were the lucky guy behind door #1. Let it go. Just imagine if she was YOUR gf and laying in another guy's lap...no bueño...just no bueño. 1
Author devildiablo Posted August 7, 2016 Author Posted August 7, 2016 I don't know how to move on....I feel like ****
sin miedo Posted August 7, 2016 Posted August 7, 2016 I don't know how to move on....I feel like **** You will in time. Also, once you figured out that she was in a committed relationship, you really should have bailed. I mean hanging out is OK, but getting emotionally invested, touching, and telling her "how beautiful she is"? Come on man, you should know better.
Author devildiablo Posted August 8, 2016 Author Posted August 8, 2016 You will in time. Also, once you figured out that she was in a committed relationship, you really should have bailed. I mean hanging out is OK, but getting emotionally invested, touching, and telling her "how beautiful she is"? Come on man, you should know better. You're right....I messed up
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