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Disappearing or acting different when asked for number???


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So over just the last few days I've ran into this.

 

Guy 1: msged me after I viewed him, acted pretty interested. Plenty of banter , getting to know you type thing. Said I'm beautiful looking and he'd love to take me out. After a couple of days of chatting back and forth, he asks for my Instagram. I say I don't have it, but have you got WhatsApp? (You need each other's numbers to add on WhatsApp) and all of a sudden his replies stop. After a few hours I text saying "I guess you don't want me to have your number?" And he msgs back "what's your number I'll msg you" but never did!

 

Guy 2: Msgs me first, lots of banter for a couple of days. Not so many getting to know you questions tho, but he's funny and we have a similar soh. But then I ask if hes on WhatsApp, and you guess it, he's not replied. Now it's a Saturday night and I realise he may just be busy etc. But I have a feeling I'm not gonna hear from him again. He would usually reply by now.

 

Now both of these had only one pic on their profile. Good looking guys, but not like supermodels where it's obviously catfish. But I'm wondering if they maybe are? Or if it turns them off a woman asking first?

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Honey, this is a frequent phenomenon on dating websites. More than likely it's a fake account. Why waste your time attempting to figure out someone REFUSING to give you their number and the aim from all this is to EVENTUALLY meet in person. Makes absolutely no sense... EARLY RED FLAG, whether fake or real.

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After the nut jobs Ive had i wont give anyone my number. If they keep pushing it.puts me off more.

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