srivastava15 Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 Hi I am in a relationship with a girl for almost 5 years. We had our share of good and bad times. There was this guy who used to text her or call her late nite. I questioned and advised her to either choose me or him. She choose me and promised that she will never be in touch with him again. There was this graduation day of her I went as she invited. However, when i went to congratulate her she ignored me. Later she felt guilty and called me several times. That was a bad experience for me but I forgave her. So basically that graduation day is a bad experience for me. However, one day i just caught the guy and took his phone and found that they are still in touch. Then the guy told that she gave the him few thousand bucks for their graduation day. I was enraged and pissed off and drove car in a sad state and met with an accident. She said sorry and promised that she learnt a lesson and is feeling guilty about it. Since then as far as my knowledge is concerned she is not in touch with him. I am not sure about it. She even asked me to verify her call records in the carrier office. I know it is not possible. She said that she hates him. Now she is doing her post graduation and is busy always. Sometimes she neglects me. Since i am in the same profession all her teachers are my friends and she knows it. Sometimes when we talk at nite or chat at nite she sleeps off and says sorry next morning. She makes no effort to improve this relation. She keeps asking for chances and will say i will improve. But so far only words. I am frustrated and upset. Can anyone suggest me a solution?
Gaeta Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 Yes Solution is to break up with her and find yourself a nice lady that respects you. Why are you dating this woman at all?? She is not even nice to you. 1
smackie9 Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 Ya I have a solution......stop acting like her doormat and breakup with her. Haven't you had enough of her crap? There is a reason why this relationship has been up and down.....it's because you haven't walked away yet. 1
Mrin Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 OP's story in food: There is this ramen shop that I've been going to for five years. The food is good but the service is awful. Sometimes I go there and the wait staff just ignores me. Other times, they are down right rude to me. One time I ordered a bowl of tonkotsu ramen. I waited and waited. And then I noticed a guy sitting at the table next to me who came in after me but was happily slurping down a bowl of you guessed it, tonkotsu ramen. I asked my waitress where mine was and she said she gave it to the other guy because he was cute. And then another time I was in there and I noticed that the other guy didn't have to pay for his ramen, but I did. I asked why and the waitress said, "oh sorry, I guess that really isn't fair that you have to pay but he doesn't". Now lately when I go in they just don't even give me the time of day. I can't even get to order much less get my food. What am I doing wrong? 2
ExpatInItaly Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 Are you sure this girl is even your girlfriend? She sure doesn't act like it. I cannot wrap my head around the fact that she ignored you at her graduation, and gave some other guy thousands as a gift? It sounds more like he is/was her boyfriend and you are/were the sidepiece. She doesn't even like you, OP. Forget her. Seriously.
mikeylo Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 She doesn't even like you, OP. Forget her. Seriously. Likes the attention.Likes that he is pinning over her.
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