4x4storm Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 So after seeing a bunch of threads over the past few weeks of people giving up on dating I agreed with what they were saying but I held strong. Until today.... While dating websites have dried up for me Tinder has been going crazy. I have been averaging 4 matches a day which never happens. While 90% of them didn't reply to my first message I got on really well with two girls so I set up dates with both of them. And yep you expected it they both flaked One of the women just simply shut of completely she went from sending me messages to replying with 3 words so I plan to delete her tonight. The the other woman I planned to meet her tomorrow and yep while at the gym today I get some long message with some bs excuse to why she has to cancel. I was so close to throwing my brand new phone against the wall right at the moment it wasn't funny. I have had a busy schedule so I have been stressed out working things around this women just to meet her and I get the plugged pulled on me. To me it's just plain rude and disrespectful for them to mess around like that. After that I was done I'm sick of selling myself to girls who don't respect me enough even though I put a lot into life. While i'm not completely done with dating i'm just not searching anymore for a bit. If something happens then that's great.
LookAtThisPOst Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 So after seeing a bunch of threads over the past few weeks of people giving up on dating I agreed with what they were saying but I held strong. Until today.... While dating websites have dried up for me Tinder has been going crazy. I have been averaging 4 matches a day which never happens. While 90% of them didn't reply to my first message I got on really well with two girls so I set up dates with both of them. And yep you expected it they both flaked One of the women just simply shut of completely she went from sending me messages to replying with 3 words so I plan to delete her tonight. The the other woman I planned to meet her tomorrow and yep while at the gym today I get some long message with some bs excuse to why she has to cancel. I was so close to throwing my brand new phone against the wall right at the moment it wasn't funny. I have had a busy schedule so I have been stressed out working things around this women just to meet her and I get the plugged pulled on me. To me it's just plain rude and disrespectful for them to mess around like that. After that I was done I'm sick of selling myself to girls who don't respect me enough even though I put a lot into life. While i'm not completely done with dating i'm just not searching anymore for a bit. If something happens then that's great. Seems to be a chain reaction going on on LoveShack with dating struggles and checking out of dating. lol. A lot of that going on. Can't say I blame them.
Author 4x4storm Posted August 6, 2016 Author Posted August 6, 2016 Seems to be a chain reaction going on on LoveShack with dating struggles and checking out of dating. lol. A lot of that going on. Can't say I blame them. It's funny because just the other day they were talking on the radio about the same subject. A woman in her 40s was explaining how dating has changed so much and it's harder then ever before to find someone. She linked it down to people not wanting to commit anymore and I completely agree with her. The amount of girls I have met with this year who are just after a bit of fun has stunned me. 2
LostOnes05 Posted August 6, 2016 Posted August 6, 2016 It's funny because just the other day they were talking on the radio about the same subject. A woman in her 40s was explaining how dating has changed so much and it's harder then ever before to find someone. She linked it down to people not wanting to commit anymore and I completely agree with her. The amount of girls I have met with this year who are just after a bit of fun has stunned me. I actually had the same conversation yesterday. As a guy in his late 20s, trying to date has boggled my mind. So, I also threw in the towel a few months ago. Just really tired of the games some women play.
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