Author NoMoreJerks Posted August 7, 2016 Author Posted August 7, 2016 I think you should come forward and tell him this is not working for you and good luck THEN block him. By ignoring him with no explanation you are asking for drama and leaving a door open. Most people that do what you are doing are simply asking for the guy to pursue them harder. End it clearly. Take full control. I have tried that -- I have done that with him, and it has only opened the way for discussion and sucked me back in. I don't want to hear his replies, or risk getting emails where he's arguing with me. I'd rather, if he is going to send emails (from another email address than the one I'd be blocking), that they be emails where he's wondering where I am/why I disappeared, than "explaining" things or making empty promises that tempt me to give it another shot. That is why I want to go NC without saying anything. I think, ultimately, that after all that I've said and tried to make him to see my point of view and how the things he's done have hurt me and how I feel disrespected, he knows already where I stand/why I've gone NC/etc.
Author NoMoreJerks Posted August 7, 2016 Author Posted August 7, 2016 This is the right way - so that he doesn't try knocking on your door. Have a plan in case he's bold enough to try knocking... I plan on leaving to USA to see my family around the time he's coming. That way , if he comes knocking, I won't be there in the first place.
elaine567 Posted August 7, 2016 Posted August 7, 2016 ... Then block him. EVERYWHERE and none of this. I don't want to hear his replies, or risk getting emails where he's arguing with me. I'd rather, if he is going to send emails (from another email address than the one I'd be blocking), that they be emails where he's wondering where I am/why I disappeared, than "explaining" things or making empty promises that tempt me to give it another shot.
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