being dumped because he thinks I'm lying

[justwannabeok]

my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me because he thinks I talk to my ex from a few years ago since I unblocked his phone number... We don't talk at all, which is exactly why I unblocked him, if we don't talk there is no need to be blocked. But my bf doesn't believe me and thinks I'm lying and has ended it... its tearing me apart because it was a great relationship and he is ending it over something that I didn't even do...we met to talk about it today and he wouldn't listen to me and it ended with me standing in the middle of his road bawling while he drove away... I'm blocked on all social media and I have no way to contact him and I don't know what to do with myself or how to mend this i he refuses to see my reasoning or talk with me again. the face that this is how a relationship that was for the most part amazing is ending is making this so much harder... I don't know what to do to fix this when he says there is nothing I can do and that he doesn't want to see me ever again

[Bialy]

I'm confused. How did he find out you unblocked your ex?

[asphyxis]

You need to respect then that he doesn't want to talk to you. Trying to find other ways to make contact really isn't the best suggestion. Give him his space, he may or may not come around. Personally, I wouldn't tolerate that behavior and you shouldn't either. I have learned that you can not force someone to believe the truth, no matter how many times you try to explain yourself. It sounds also a bit immature. Just leave things the way that they are.

[Mrin]

And why did you unblock your ex? Really? It isn't like you have a limited number of block slots or maintaining a block costs you anything. What made you decide one day to go to your phone and remove a block?

[justwannabeok]

my ex texted me happy birthday several months ago and I said thanks- that was the extent of the convo. my bf looked through my mac while i was out the other day and saw that.

 

I had an issue a few months ago where I was getting tons of spammed calls a day, and I blocked them all. I was looking at the crazy long block list and saw his name and just undid it because i don't talk to him anyway. I realize now i should have kept him blocked, but there was no alterior motive to the action

[Weezy1973]

I broke up with a woman once because I didn't trust her. I literally told her I didn't really know if she was trustworthy or not, but I didn't trust her and trust is everything in a relationship. Best for both of us to end it. Sometimes you just have to go with your gut...

[Gr8fuln2020]

my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me because he thinks I talk to my ex from a few years ago since I unblocked his phone number... We don't talk at all, which is exactly why I unblocked him, if we don't talk there is no need to be blocked. But my bf doesn't believe me and thinks I'm lying and has ended it... its tearing me apart because it was a great relationship and he is ending it over something that I didn't even do...we met to talk about it today and he wouldn't listen to me and it ended with me standing in the middle of his road bawling while he drove away... I'm blocked on all social media and I have no way to contact him and I don't know what to do with myself or how to mend this i he refuses to see my reasoning or talk with me again. the face that this is how a relationship that was for the most part amazing is ending is making this so much harder... I don't know what to do to fix this when he says there is nothing I can do and that he doesn't want to see me ever again

 

I once broke it off with a girl for something similar. No second chances. In my case, had long, definite conversations about her ever contacting, or even suggesting to contact her ex. He was a bad dude and she did anyway. She lost a lot...don't know what she is doing now, but I've heard that, to this day, she regrets that mistake. You unblocked your ex b/c you were hoping contacting from him. You opened another door for him to contact you. For your bf, unblocking him indicates only one thing...you are hoping to make contact. Look at it through his eyes...he's the new guy and you have reopened communication with his predecessor, his competition...

[ChickiePops]

my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me because he thinks I talk to my ex from a few years ago since I unblocked his phone number... We don't talk at all, which is exactly why I unblocked him, if we don't talk there is no need to be blocked. But my bf doesn't believe me and thinks I'm lying and has ended it... its tearing me apart because it was a great relationship and he is ending it over something that I didn't even do...we met to talk about it today and he wouldn't listen to me and it ended with me standing in the middle of his road bawling while he drove away... I'm blocked on all social media and I have no way to contact him and I don't know what to do with myself or how to mend this i he refuses to see my reasoning or talk with me again. the face that this is how a relationship that was for the most part amazing is ending is making this so much harder... I don't know what to do to fix this when he says there is nothing I can do and that he doesn't want to see me ever again

 

But you DO talk to your ex. So you actually were lying, and you did do something wrong.

 

You unblocked him because you wanted attention. You got it. Now you've fairly paid the price. Consider this a lesson learned.

[VeveCakes]

You unblocked him because you were hoping he would contact you! Did you do it around your birthday knowing he would message you?

 

Seriously, your bf saw a red flag and made a smart move.

[Marco Valerio]

Yep, I totally agree with everyone here suggesting you unblocked him so he/you could contact each other. Wrong move girl, accept the consequence from your action and move on.