Tyrazzo Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 Now it is so that I was with a girl, everything went well, we kissed, we slept with eachother, until she suddenly stopped hearing from her. We have not talked much with each other, but she has been in touch with my friends and said that the status between us is that we're just friends. Strangely enough, she has not said anything to me about us. What is she like? 1
Gaeta Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 What part is unclear? You slept together without discussing the status of your relationship so it could have been anything between dating and nothing. Looks like it was nothing to her, just a friendship. 3
Gaeta Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 See, women are acting more and more like men. Nowadays women have no strings attached sex, casual sex, friends with benefits, and it confuses the hell out of men. So yes, a woman can have sex with you, just for the sex, and not care at all to be in a relationship with you. 4
Author Tyrazzo Posted August 4, 2016 Author Posted August 4, 2016 See, women are acting more and more like men. Nowadays women have no strings attached sex, casual sex, friends with benefits, and it confuses the hell out of men. So yes, a woman can have sex with you, just for the sex, and not care at all to be in a relationship with you. What is messed up is that we have been doing this for quite some time now actually. 1
Author Tyrazzo Posted August 4, 2016 Author Posted August 4, 2016 When any person in a relationship stops making effort that means they aren't interested enough to make effort. If she's not in contact = she isn't interested. But why didn't she just say DIRECTLY to me that we're just friends, instead of telling that to my friends? 1
Satu Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 (edited) But why didn't she just say DIRECTLY to me that we're just friends, instead of telling that to my friends? She obviously doesn't feel that she owes you that courtesy. “And so we use them for a kind of pleasure which can be called "fun." But it is not the creative kind of fun often connected with play; it is, rather, a shallow, distracting, greedy way of "having fun." And it is not by chance that it is that type of fun which can easily be commercialized, for it is dependent on calculable reactions, without passion, without risk, without love. Of all the dangers that threaten our civilization, this is one of the most dangerous ones: the escape from one’s emptiness through a "fun" which makes joy impossible.” ― Paul Tillich, The New Being. Edited August 4, 2016 by Satu 2
leogirl876 Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 But why didn't she just say DIRECTLY to me that we're just friends, instead of telling that to my friends? Men ghost after sex, this time it was a woman doing it to a man. I won't ever understand this way of acting, especially after someone has sex with someone, but that's just me. I also could never sleep with a guy that I was just friends with or ghost him. This sucks but it's best to find someone else, and don't be surprised after you find someone else, she comes back around.
Bialy Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 If she meant anything to you --- why didn't you bring up how you feel about her and how you viewed the relationship? It seems like you took the laid-back, casual approach and she never expected much from you.
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